between bestfriend and boy/girl friend

Indonesia
March 19, 2009 11:31pm CST
hi.. guys i am confusing.which one will you choose between your bestfriend or boy/girl friend..?
8 responses
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
20 Mar 09
Wow, this is hard. I honestly dont think you should ever have to chose between two people. I was in this situation a few years ago and a lot of my friends go mad at me because i would not chose between them and the guy I was dating at the time. I explained that they are all important to me and that I refuse to chose. I later saw what my friends had said about the guy, and the man I am engaged to now has never told me to choose nor has my friends ever told me to chose, so I know that they all see the good in this guy
@Kathy25 (13)
• China
20 Mar 09
To be honest, it is very difficult question to everyone. Because i think bestfriend and boy friend can not compare each other. They posses different positions in our heart. Although sometimes there is conflict when we deal with something,i think we should calm down and try our best to solve it instead of facing ourselves to make the choice.
@syankee525 (6295)
• United States
20 Mar 09
well i would hope i wouldnt have too, and if either one want me to do for whatever reason i tell them both to work it out i refuse to choice and i am not going to do it. but if one of them are doing something in the front of the other that didn't like i would ask them to stop. because as i see its not faith and there should be that common respect bwtween them for me
@gracie04 (4555)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
Well, there's no need to choose as i consider my hubby as my bestfriend too.. you know, i share with him my secrets, happy thoughts, ideas, rants, rambles, happy memories, among others.. i used to have a bestfriend wayback in high school but after graduation, we lost contact/connection.. that made me realize that friends come and go.. yay! but i miss her though..
@mamalev (264)
• Philippines
20 Mar 09
I would say my bestfriends without batting an eyelash. They've been there even before I met my bf and he understands it I guess lol. I've made it clear to him that he doesn't stand a chance if it's between him and my best friends because we treat each other like sisters.
• United States
20 Mar 09
I would have to say I would choose my girlfriend. I consider her to be my bestfriend though. I think she would stand up for me against anybody. I'm pretty sure she would say the same about me.
@CJscott (4184)
• Canada
20 Mar 09
If I had to choose, probably my best friend. Girls come and go. But friends they can stick around. People change as we grow, some relationships will fade, others grow stronger. The real good ones with stick it out. If someone is forcing you to choose, choose not that person. If someone won't accept you, because of who you choose to "hang out" with, then they are probably not worth keeping around, in my opinion.
@ahslack (487)
• Singapore
20 Mar 09
Yup,it will be very difficult to choose between friends or my girlfriend if i had one.Most of the people around me put more time on their girlfriend.It would be best if i could balance it well,but i guess i will spend more time with my girlfriend.