is he jealous

@yoyo2323 (465)
China
March 21, 2009 3:27am CST
when i was in relationship with him ,he often argued with me when i talked to some other guys.and even when i shopping whin my famale friends he called me somany times.he didn't want me to talk with other guys,but he can not limit my social activities! hehe is urs jealous?
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4 responses
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
21 Mar 09
Those who are possessive are often jealous too. I think this is one inherent nature found in all males. Exceptions are rare.
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
21 Mar 09
maybe all men are the same!but why they can talk to girls they like!hehe thank u!
@sunita64 (6474)
• India
21 Mar 09
Double standards obviously, one set of rules for girlfriend and one set for themselves.
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
21 Mar 09
hehe maybe this a reason why the woman can not bear their man. thank u!in men's view we are their property!this what i can not understand!
@jpso138 (7844)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Jealousy is perhaps normal. But being jealous even with the slightest things is obviously not good for a relationship. What is important is trust and confidence. A healthy relationship should be with love, trust, and perhaps a little jealousy....
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
24 Mar 09
hehe we need trust and not be too jealous!hehe and if a man is too jealous then it is hard to keep a relationship! thank u!
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• United States
21 Mar 09
insecurity often leads to jealousy. your bf is not to secure with himself that's why he doesnt want you to socialize with other people for the reason that he is afraid that you could meet someone better than him. Maybe you should try to show him once in a while how special he is so that he would feel good about himself. If he still acts possesive, try to talk it out with him and explain boxing you in is not healthy to yourself as a person and to your relationship as well.
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
21 Mar 09
thank u! we have breaken up .so i am free now ``i think on one side he loves me ,but on the other side he is a little bit selfish.
@Hatley (164652)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Sep 09
hi yoyo I sure hope you arent with this man any longer.' those are the signs of a potential wife beater, phoning to check up on the girl friend or wife, being jealous if she so'much as speaks to another man, and trying to limit his girls social activities until she has nobody but him. this person is really' scary to me. he wants power over a girl and w ill strike her'sooner or later.