What is the best way to a woman's heart?

@inkyuboz (1288)
Mandaluyong City, Philippines
March 21, 2009 8:18pm CST
They say that a good sense of humor can actually be a good trait to have so that women will notice you. But after they notice you, how can you build a deeper relationship? I agree with people that say the best way to a guy's heart is through his stomach... but how about women? What IS the best way to THEIR heart? ? ? ?
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@playapal (894)
• United States
22 Mar 09
To me the best way to woman's heart is to listen to what she says. Communication is so very important! Remember what she tells you, don't just blow her off. Make her laugh and make her feel special. Treat her with respect and cherish her. My husband and I are best friends, I can tell him anything and visa versa. Of course, chocolate is always good too LOL.
• United States
22 Mar 09
I agree with playapal, its about listening else she might as well be talking to a lamp . Sometimes women want to be taken serious. Hugs, laughter, kindness, and respect are also needed .
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@inkyuboz (1288)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
29 Mar 09
You've got the best answer for me. Good job.
@playapal (894)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Thanks so much for the best response! Hope it helps!
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@Pleiades (847)
• United States
31 Mar 09
The best way to a woman's heart is definately between her ears. In other words...nice words will go far with a female. *Pleiades
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@inkyuboz (1288)
• Mandaluyong City, Philippines
31 Mar 09
*scribbles down notes* Hmm... thanks for the advice Pleiades.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
30 Mar 09
Women loves to be heard, so listening to them is a great way to their heart...even if you dont have much to say...listen to them and ask question about what they are saying...they will feel you!
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
woman's heart - a woman's heart is where love dwells
hi inkyuboz, as a woman i believe that the best ways to our heart are the following, it may be traits, actions or situation that we will feel that our man loves us. 1. respect - when our man respects us much in all aspect of individuality, can be shown trough actions and words 2. generous - being kind hearted of a man will make us feel that this man deserved to be loved. being generous is not only giving the woman things or gifts but also generousity means that the man is kind enough to help other people. 3. humor - he knows how to make her woman smile and laugh at his simple and funny jokes 4. faith - if the guy has a consistent faith with God that makes a woman feel that he is God fearing and he will not do things that violates the commandments of God. moreso if a man is God fearing he knows how to be compassionate with his girl and with other people as well. i hope these things have helped you in your inquiry. God bless
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• United States
22 Mar 09
I can only speak for myself. I know trust and honesty is the way to my heart.
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@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
i think the sense of humor is correct, i got a great attention from my wife during the days that i want to go get a date with her. then i think the next is make her feel important, make her feel like she is the most beautiful lady in the world. make her feel precious. i always buy something even cheap, as long as she knows i remember her when i was out. something like that. married now for 6 years and we have a three year old son that picture appears as my avatar
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@mssnow (9493)
• United States
22 Mar 09
I love sweet talk and a man joking with me. But i can tell someone who is just doing it to get into bed me. Someone who is sincere will shine through with how they talk to me. Dont be fake but you can be cute silly and funny.
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@daliaj (5689)
• India
30 Apr 09
Being a woman I think the way to my heart is caring and making me feel that I am special. I don't think sense of humor has a big part. It can make the woman laugh, but the laugh is only for a second or two seconds, there are a lot of other things to get into her heart. I strongly belive that being handsome is not a way to women's heart. Women don't care much about the look of the guy, she care more about how he takes care of her and how he treats her.
@pickoy (734)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
Interesting post... Yes, number one factor is the sense of humor and it should never fade! For me, the second important thing is to stay interesting. If both of you have a knack in learning new things, a man is supposed to be intellectually competitive, of course, not that lawyer type that argues and nags all the time. If a man is sensible enough you'll never get tired talking to him and ideas always stream like a spring of living water. Once you get bored the next thing you'll do is get out, so see to it that you bring new things to a relationship all the time. There are a lot of ingredients and most of them depend on how much effort you're willing to exert to keep the relationship alive. Be creative and unpredictable. Women love it too when guys can cook good food. There are girls who hate surprises and i don't get it, coz i love it. It totally depends on what kind of woman you are looking for or currently dealing with. lol.