Why "I love you" is necessary?

@Informer (803)
India
March 22, 2009 7:19am CST
We all know what "I love you" is and when people use these three words. We all care these words and always want to listen these words fron our beloved. BUt my question is" Why "I love You" is necessary in love? Don't we understand love without hearing that line? Or it has become a normal line which has no sense? or just a routine for us?
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@oyenkai (4398)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
"I love you" is necessary because it assures our partner that what we feel is real. Some people think that actions speak louder than words - but isn't it just annoying when a guy SEEMS like he likes you but you can't know FOR SURE because he never says anything about it? He does all sorts of things for you, but still he doesn't say out loud that he likes you? Saying it out loud is a confirmation of everything that a person does. Thanks for the response on my discussion!
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
21 Apr 09
I also think most people loves to hear it.
@snow8515 (170)
• China
22 Mar 09
Isn't it a romantic thing hearing your beloved says these three words? Maybe you have believed he loves you deeply. However, I think these words stand for an affirmation.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
21 Apr 09
I also think it is a romantic thing and most people loves to hear it from the people they love.
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
22 Mar 09
When I say "I love you" its not out of habit or because i have to, its beacuse I do. I dont jsut tell the ones I love that I love them, but I also go out of my way to show them, cause lets face it, actions speak louder than words. And sometimes, it just feels right to tell them that I do love them
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• Italy
22 Mar 09
say "i love you" is too easy :-( and for me has no sense....
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• Philippines
12 Oct 09
although actions speaks louder than words. you still need and must to say "i love you" know why? it will be useless for us to say that words when the person is already gone how would they know? not all people can understand and predict what you really mean. what if you're friend is inlove with you? how would you really know if you're confused is it love of a friend or an intimate love? life is too short. let us not make saying " i love you" just a mere routine but a way of showing care and true love.
@Informer (803)
• India
12 Oct 09
Hi Friend, Well I am glad to see your response. That shows how much you care to your partner. Yes "I love you" is necessary. I agree.
@cherriemae (3374)
• Philippines
12 May 09
Hi there informer... how are you today? when we say I love you to the person whom we love and it's really comes from our heart, it's nice to hear it and feel it.. that's what's also we like when our love ones will say that magic word.. for me, it's necessary to say i love you to special person in our life because that's one way of giving them thanks or showing the love we feel for them..also in couple or in relationships, it's really important for us to say that word, it's different feeling when we hear those words..happy mylotting and have a nice day..
@qinqinoen (127)
• China
11 Apr 09
I think anyone like to hear "i love you!" especially the lovers.This word express love to others.If i hear some people say this word to me ,i feel very well.I love to hear this word.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
10 Apr 09
When a person looks at the eyes of the person he or she loves and tell them that I love you, the feeling is at the best. The person feels he or she in the top of the world. I think it is always great to say I love you to people whom we love. Most people including me love to hear the words I love you from the people who lvoe us.