It would also imply that anyone who manages on how the child grows influences what that child could do in the future once that child becomes an adult so, it could mean that that 'hand' can either be a man or a woman's..
i was caught off guard there. but you're right. but i still would say it's us moms (joke). you're definitely right. i would have lost in court with that argument. but mostly it pertains to us ;) happy mylotting, friend!