do u change urself for ur loved one

@yoyo2323 (465)
China
March 24, 2009 2:25am CST
we know that when we meet the right one we become change for him or her.we do not notice that we are changing for them.we begin to nitice when his or her favorite program is broadcasted,what's is or her favorite food ,hobbies...maybe we hate something so much but bacause of him or her u started to love it.and u find it is not so bad. have u ever changed urself for ur loved ones?
7 responses
@ericajoyce (1749)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
I did infact changed myself for my ex. I started to loose weight because of him. I wasnt exactly fat, I was just right for my height and age,but my ex didnt like it. I told him that it was my first time gaining weight. I have been thin ever since, but he still wanted me to lose weight. When we broke up, I realized that I should not change myself just because my partner told me so.
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
24 Mar 09
do not lose ur weihgt when u r thin enough .that's bad for ur heslth if he realy concern about ur heslth he won't let u do that!hehe congratulations .so u can have ur own lifestyle. thanku!
@taoyao99 (31)
• China
26 Mar 09
Actually i do,the love for him make me start to change myself,he likes a quiet girl,and then i start to do more reading and less playing,he loves cate and then i start to learn how to cook much more deliciouse foods,all of these i do just bscause i love the boy,and at the same time ,he also change himself to fit me and do his best to keep our love sweet forever
• China
26 Mar 09
I changed some thing for my first boyfriend.I didn't eat hot food before.He likes eating hot things,so i become familiar with that day by day!
@eneria (118)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
yep, ive changed a lot but in a nice way.. and i chose to change it because i want to.. if your partner really want or loves you, he or she'll accept everything.. even your tantrums.. :)
@jazemind (52)
• Canada
24 Mar 09
I have never intentionally changed for my love. My first thought on seeing this was NO i won't change for anyone... but... when i read your's..ummm I have changed my opnion on a few things, i used to be closeminded on and now see a different side of . My eating habits have changed because parnter is diabetic...etc. so it is hard to live with someone and NOT change at all.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
24 Mar 09
I have changed a lot for my significant other a lot a lot whatever attitute, personality, eating and living habits. It has been slowly and lightly changing me and I sometimes realize after a while and reflect - I have been changing a lot. I don't think he has anything changed but IU'm sure I have and it seems it is normal.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Yes. I did change for someone. But, in some ways I don't think changing yourself is one way to impress someone. I mean, it is like saying you want to lie for something you are not.