Can i date a women already married?

India
March 24, 2009 7:44am CST
can we date or love a married woman, she is looks so cute and sexy and broad minded person and she really wants me lot.
5 responses
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
24 Mar 09
In my personal opinion generally NO!....HOWEVER there are situations where its ok such as, like its been mentioned, if they are legally seperated..Or like with my situation..I'm married AND I have a boyfriend..BUT they know about each other and its somethign we've all agreed on...there are no secrets, neither relationship is hidden..
• India
24 Mar 09
My situation is we both working in same industry and his husband is far from her. in our daily discussions got some topic like this. so she wants to be date with me. until now we are very close friends and she is elder than me too. so i am thinking a lot about this. Thank you for responding..happy mylotting.
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
24 Mar 09
well I would see how she would feel about mentioning this to her husband..if she wouldnt have problems with doing that AND if he wouldnt have problems with you keeping her "company" while he is so far away then I say there is nothing wrong with it...BUT if its a secret kept from the husband then I think its a bad idea....
• India
24 Mar 09
I feel if i say no to her, i lose a nice friend and she may looks at me cheaper and makes me a fool infront of all. Anyway i take your decision and try to say no to her and request her to be a good friends like before. Thankyou verymuch raven
• South Korea
24 Mar 09
for me it is really not in proper way to having a date with married woman,i know sometimes being far from our partner there are lots of temptation and we cant deny that we need somebody who comforts us,but as you already knew that she is commited why dont you fine way to help her avoid the temptation dont take advantage you are matured enough if you dont have any intention for her in bad way kindly avoid that try not to closed that much she is weak as a woman and you are a strong one.
• India
24 Mar 09
cassandra, once got the idea in mind, we are humans and very hard to control it, if got temptation ...very very hard to control of it own mind and impossible to cotrol her mind. I am saying fact. i am also normal man so i told my feelings on your comment.
• South Korea
24 Mar 09
i dont say i blame you for this yes i understand your situation,my point is think about the cons might be happen,think about the next,if you want to go for date with her there is possible to fall in love each other and you know what is next.my question is are you willing to catch her in times she need you?i mean how about her husband will know about you affair?and they will broken because of you?what will you do?are you willing to be with her?if your answer is yes then decision is yours.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
welcome to mylot naga, well the question is will she go out for a date with you? i dont think you need to persue to go out with her for you might just get broken hearted in the end. even you will just go out with her then you might find yourself falling inlove with her. you will just hurt yourself so might as well find someone who is free or single.
@keasling (724)
• United States
24 Mar 09
It all depends on your ethics. Many will say it is wrong and you should leave her a lone. Others may say if she wants it go ahead. You have to ask yourself a couple questions. 1. Are you ready to enter a relationship knowing it will most likely not go any further? That she is married she most likely will not just leave her husband or she would have already. 2. Are you ready to except the copnsqueneces of being cuaght? Are you ready for confrontation if the husband catches the two of you together? 3. Does she have children and or you ready to except the fact that you will play a role in breaking up the family if you are cuaght? It truly depends on what you believe is right and wrong. Only you will be able to tell. Good Luck with anything that you choose..
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
You can date a married woman if she is "married but legally separated." If you don't want to stay behind bars you should not... There's a lot of fine single ladies so why date a married woman? I am sorry to say but I find it so ridiculous.