Do peoplef all in love over 'voice' on phone ?

@krajibg (11936)
Guwahati, India
March 25, 2009 4:37am CST
Yes, it is possible to fall in love even without seeing the person in reality. It is just by hearing or listening the voice. Some people do posses such a charismatic voice or their modulation of words and sentences is such attractive that the hearer can not help but getting carried away. And if this happens quite frequently it could push one to fall in love. Some years back when my student (girl) used to phone me other girls in her hostel would make sort of crowd to converse with me and later I was told that they loved my voice on phone. I do not know…. What about you? Rajib. 25.03.09
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 09
Many times over I fell victim to the power of voice or vocal tone of people. I will fall flat on my face and my whole body will turn jelly whenever I hear people sing in a very husky but soothing voice. That was the reason I fell wrongly in love with my husband. He is a great singer and has a beautiful voice, a mixture of Tom Jones and Elton John. He mesmerized me with his strong vocal power and his great singing talent. And yes, words a person write can also easily draw me to that person. A very common case in mylot. People are drawn to me as much as I am being drawn to them with the way they play around with their words. So this is to say people fall in love for the wrong reasons. With physical appearance, it will no doubt attract me but will not make me easily fall in love.
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Yes, both voice and the power to control and modulate voice are something attract people or to put it in a more befitting way hypnotise others. This is indeed an inherent quality in man and surely could be worked on them as well. Your choice of the man was in no way an incorrect and you got what you were proclivated towards, I feel my voice too sounds something linkable on phone and more than a dozen people have said this to me.
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 09
Interesting..sure would like to hear your voice Rajib. You must have the voice that I love. LOL Do you sing? I guess you must have captivated the hearts of many women and broke some of them to pieces. It is God's gift and you should be proud of it.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
26 Mar 09
he he he When I joined my college a lecturer I was 23.6 years old and I knew many docile heart bending towards me but I was helpless as I could not comply to the whispering wishes of those dolls. And finally many were reported to have fall on their face. What could I do after all I like singing but not that good in singing but like to listen English county songs like that of Don Williams. No problem just sometime mail me your mobile no and I will give you a call.
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hello krajibg! Honestly, when I heard my husband's voice on the phone, that's the time I really confirmed that I really love my husband. I told him that. The first time I heard his voice, I have been craving to hear it over and over and I look forward to his next calls.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
OHhhhhhhh there our friend with all confession!!!!!!! That is great. So finally the voice thing worked on you. Ya that is the hypnotizing part of one's voice. Thanks you. And please do not mind a little fun....
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• United States
25 Mar 09
hehehe..you're right..we met online and that's the time of our first phone calls..
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
26 Mar 09
Thats really awesome. How is things going on now?
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
25 Mar 09
I think it is dependent on individuals. i am not able to do so. I can't trust any without seeing him face to face.But many does so i know
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Hi subha! why do not take it in lighter vein rather. Just reflect and feel have not you been ever pleased at somebody's voice over your phone? Like that. Thanks a lot.
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@mysdianait (64056)
• Italy
25 Mar 09
Hi Rajib! When you speak to a person for the first time over the phone their voice is very important and some have a tone which can be very 'captivating'. I have friends who have a lovely deep phone voice and it is a joy to hear them talk but from that to falling in love with them through their voice is a big step A certain voice can 'strike a chord' when I'm listening to it and I have found myself wondering what the person who has a deep, sensual voice might look like. Not always did the physical appearance match the expectations after hearing the voice so I am now wary
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Ya that is a point to ponder. A person with that charismatic voice must be having that physical built up too. In case of non availability what would be the situation?
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@mysdianait (64056)
• Italy
25 Mar 09
In case of non availability... personally I cross that bridge when I come to it
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
That is you.
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@glords (2615)
• United States
25 Mar 09
watch out for those young students... they can be trouble! As for falling in love, I think people can fall in love with someone without ever hearing their voice. I know of two people that fell in love writing each other letters. I guess you could fall in love with someone by interacting with anything that expressed their soul. Like a letter, or a painting, or a phone call, etc... however the tricky part would be to get them to fall in love with you as well.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Yes wring letters, exchanging emails, calling over phone all could lead to love relation for all they have some attraction in them.
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@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
25 Mar 09
I guess it's possible for some people they seem to think beautiful voice or words = beautiful face or personality but I think lonely people are more prone to this because they don't have anyone to love or love them, at least not that they know of single people are not always lonely sometimes they choose to be or are preoccupied with work and dreams to achieve so their mind is always busy and do not easily fall for a nice voice
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• United States
25 Mar 09
I agree that lonely people are the most susceptible I for falling in love over the phone. I don't even think it is love. I think it is being in love with love.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
26 Mar 09
@ LittleMel, You conjectured well. These are mostly introvert sort of people who easily fall prey to such beautiful and commanding voice. Thanks a lot for the response,
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@laedyan (190)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
Hello there. Its really possible for one to fall inlove with a person's voice. I experienced it several times in my life. But still, i don't go for the voice only. I always try to meet the person personally before really accepting that i'm inlove.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Yes you are right. And I appreciate your view.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
That is the nest way. IF you feel inclined towards falling in love then you should have a different stance.
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25 Mar 09
It is possible, I suppose. The human mind is attracted to certain aspects of people without a proper justification. Not seeing, not hearing versions of falling in love too happen over the internet, but if a voice can appeal to your senses in a certain way, then your bond over the virtual medium strengthens. Then it is only a matter of meeting the person in flesh and blood!
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
IF you could not meet in person then? Well still the relation could go on. Now for example you know me a much you need to know me as one of the many thousand mylotters. You are not bothered what I had in my lunch nor what I would have in my dinner but you are having the best of the things available right? Suppose we have each others mobile numbers and are talking quite frequently. Would not we come much closer psychically?
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26 Mar 09
no! talking constantly on the phone does not guarantee that the two people will come close physically when they meet!
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Mar 09
i dont know because never experienced that i inlove only listening the voice.but i easy to fall inve with a love letters
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
You mean the love letter written in the plain paper? Great idea. Hope I could write to you lol.
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@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Mar 09
@phoenix79 (304)
• United States
26 Mar 09
I think believing in that is like believing in a fairy tale. You have to really know someone to love them. I think that we use the word love too liberally around here. I like Latin where there are 4 ways to say I love you. Each way changes the meaning just a little. Like there is a love that you feel for a sibling and then there is the love that you feel for your lover. Blessed be
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
There are more than four in English I guess that love' denotes. Here we were talking about an attraction between males and females when they are conversing and one or the other finds his/her voice too catchy and literally falls in love. This can happen. Do not you think so?
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@celticeagle (119818)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Mar 09
I really believe there are possibilities here with what you are saying. I think it has alot more to do with magnetic attraction. A combination of voice, personality, lilt,inner anxt and such. A nice, husky and manny voice can't hurt but I just think it goes further than that. And a light hearted laugh can't hurt either. All of this rounded into a nice, good hearted man can do wonders no matter how you may look at it.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Hi celticeagle! You are right I suppose. There are some mysterious features that attract a person to another. Thanks for responding.
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• Philippines
26 Mar 09
Guess what? I am hypnotizing someone via voice chat, he said he likes my voice. I know the signs of a hypnotized person because when he wakes up, he is different when he is under. I also love his voice, maybe we are loving each other's voice. I do fall in love just by hearing a person, but it depends also on what kind of person he is in and out, i am not into physical appearance though it counts if he is also handsome.:)
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Really. But when you know the person physically the voice element fades out. Is not it? Thanks for responding.
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@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hi rajib! I think that it is possible to fall in love with someones voice! Especially with some men's voices. Some men have voices that tend to be soothing and as you have said somewhat charismatic. I have heard some men's voices that are so captivating that I could listen to them all day! It didn't even matter what they were saying, I just loved to hear them speak! Here in the US, the actor Jame Earl Jones is especially famous for his voice! When he speaks, everyone listens! There is something very captivating and soothing about the tone of his voice!
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Hi Opal, Not only men I have heard female voice too. It is so captivating and hypnotizing that you just can not help prating them.
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• United States
25 Mar 09
Maybe some people do, but I don't know if they really do without meeting each other first. I mean we imagine what someone looks like on the phone, and even if we have a photo of them we still might not know about their real look in real time. You might not know their true spirit until you spend actual time with them.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Yes this is all virtual reality and nothing else. Thanks a lot for responding.
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@mymytri (2032)
• India
25 Mar 09
Yes.Some people voice really good on phone.I have some friends who speaks so sweet on phones.I too love hear that type of cool voices.I think mine is also good.Happy mylotting...
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
This is the charismatic voice of the people the treat they have the capacity tp charm people around and world not you believe in thus?
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@youetme (352)
• China
25 Mar 09
Yes, I have fallen in love a man without seeing him . I remebered that everyday we communicted on line by listening voice each other. Later we saw each other and felt good .
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
I really appreciate on who is vocal on such subject. Thanks a lot.
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• Sweden
25 Mar 09
I think a voice can sound attractive but to fall in love simply because of the voice and how you speak I don't think is possible. It would have to be what you're saying that would actually make someone fall in love with you, that would reflect your personality. The same would be through chatting online or sending letters, it's not your handwriting that would have someone fall in love with you but what it is your expressing in your words.
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• Philippines
25 Mar 09
Well this special someone likes to hear my voice every time we chat. He always says I have a 'sexy voice' which I don't actually agree. He insisted that he means it. Which I always say, "okay whatever you say! I believe you!" Well I like him for treating me well and respected.. Whatever he thinks of my voice doesn't really matter to me, but I love it when he says good things about it.
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@bamrahkirti (1819)
• India
25 Mar 09
I too get mesmerized by seewt voices and that is why i like many singers who have charismatic and melodious voices.I do not fall in love with them because i am a practical person and do not get carried away by sensuous voices but i am a great admirer of people having soft spoken skills and who always weigh their words before speaking.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Each man is an island. So people differ. This is not necessary that you have to fall in love. It is just a feeling that carries you to a different land and still you wont feel that you have cheated on some body.
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@elghrasya (502)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
I think yes too it is possible to fall for someone when you hear his/her voice over the phone. I experienced this many times before when I am very fond of using cellular phones. I used the network suncel because it offers unlimited call all day. Many boys fall in love with me when they heard my voice. And one of them became my boyfriend, we had our relationship for almost 7 months and we were not seeing each other at that time. But It's hard to figure out that love if it is real or not so for me it's possible but it's also risky.
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
wow you too have that voice then? Its fantastic. I would love to listen to that voice of yours at least once.
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