Would you call yourself pretty, handsome -------

India
March 26, 2009 6:23am CST
I know beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but then how do you behold yourself when you look into the mirror. I was just thinking about my looks now when I looked at the reflection and knew age is gradually catching up on me. I used to look good, never mind blowing pretty. There are times when I see really pretty ladies or handsome men and my breath catches in my throat. I see Gods hand in this beauty. How do you rate yourself ???
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33 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hello ketybhagat! Honestly speaking, I don't see myself as pretty nor too ugly..hehehe..I do believe that I am just an average girl that no one will notice while walking. When I look at the mirror, I try to find what's wrong in my face and what's beautiful there and all I can say is a normal eyes, nose, lips and skin. I though thank God for giving me this face.
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• India
30 Mar 09
You look really cute to me asia, and who cares to be very beautiful. they have their own problems. We are happy with what we are and thank God for that. you seem a wonderful person inside and thats what really counts. thanks.
• United States
30 Mar 09
thank you for the compliment kety..your avatar is cute too..hehehe
@srganesh (6340)
• India
27 Mar 09
Well,everybody should have to think themselves as pretty or handsome.Otherwise we will die of inferiority complex.On the other hand we should practice to admire others too.About myself,I look more handsome daily in the morning after I had a bath and dressed neatly.In the evenings,I don't like to see the mirror as I know how I would look after a tiresome work.Cheers!
• India
30 Mar 09
Guess that makes you a handsome person. We all look miserable in the evenings after a hard days work, but Im sure that does not diminish your image. You may feel uncomfortable, but the others may see you as handsome even then. Yes, having a complex is the worst thing. Sane head on strong shoulders. cheers.
• Indonesia
27 Mar 09
reflected the beauty of self and the nature of attitude of someone
• India
30 Mar 09
Beauty of the self comes from within, which is one of the most important aspect of life. knowing you are beautiful on the inside, makes you confident of life. It says a lot about you. thanks.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
30 Mar 09
Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder is the aesthetic view. Now come to the actual life and I say I am a charmer. Just look at my avatar and feel the beauty oozing out.
• India
2 Apr 09
Hey ! Stop it ! Your oozing beauty is drowning me ! Haha. Oh yes, in your avtar I can see a really charming person who absolutely knows he is charming. Wow. Keep it up. Confidence always is a plus point. Cheers.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Apr 09
So dear be careful of the oozing beauty
• China
27 Mar 09
I'm common looking before i wear make-up!I'm satisfied about my look. I have prejudice to handsome guys,cz' they are self-centered guys!
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• India
30 Mar 09
Well, thats what make up is for. To give you the added punch. You think all film stars are beautiful. You got to see them before make up, layers and layers of them. men whether handsome or not seem to have inflated egos, and if they are handsome, more so. So we just have to grin and bear them. cheers.
• United States
27 Mar 09
There are times that I don't think I'm very pretty. And sometimes I want to be prettier, but I think every girl thinks that occasionally. I wouldn't say that I'm ugly, hopefully I'm not. ha But I guess if I had to rate myself, I'd say maybe cute?
• India
30 Mar 09
You look damn cute to me. And thats in the photo, so you must be muuuuuuch mmore cuter, even very pretty. So, cheers to you pretty woman.
• India
27 Mar 09
Seriously Your attitude matters more which makes you more pretty or handsome.... since last year whenever i see myself in mirror i always loved my facial/physical features and my prettiness...specially i the beautymark on my left cheek..:) but after giving a birth to my son i think i need to work very hard to get myself back...need to reduce weight and need facial treatment too..:( i hope i get myself back soon...
• India
30 Mar 09
Well, Im sure you will regain your beauty pretty soon. Delivery is like another birth for a mother, so you will shape up pretty soon. A little pampering from beauticians and weight loss is necessary for all women.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I would not rate myself pretty at all LOL. I know I am not ugly but my version of pretty, is not within myself.
• India
30 Mar 09
You are underestimating yourself step, you say you are not ugly, so you are reasonably pretty which is great. We all are. Chill out pal, for you are the backbone of your family and a wonderful person inside, so thats what actually matters. thanks.
@rainmark (4302)
27 Mar 09
I think im average pretty. lols. But sometimes i feel down when i see myself looks so dull, and then i need to find a beauty products. I do look older than my age, mu hubby is handsome while me is average lolz.
• India
30 Mar 09
Hey, you look pretty pretty to me. Dont you let your husband make you feel inferior, or give you a complex. He married you and you are what matters, the real you, inside. so cheer up. We all need some pampering in our lives, so go out and have a make over. Stun your husband,
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I think I'm fairly good. I should like to think so because I think my boyfriend is hot (LOL) I wouldn't want to think that I'm ugly and that I got him because I was lucky and that I could just as easily be unlucky and lose him! Hahaha Although I can't imagine myself growing old :) I think it'll take a lot of maturity in order to accept age. Thanks for the response on my discussion!
• India
31 Mar 09
Yes, you are a pretty girl from what I see. Hot boyfriend, eh. Thats saying a lot about you both. Im really glad for you. Dont worry, maturity comes in its own time and you still have many many more years to go. Cheers.
@23uday (2997)
• India
27 Mar 09
Hi friend, Sometimes i will be so handsome pretty good looking,positive thinking,positive way. Our self looking is good,attracts to woman,pretty handsome,good dressing way. have a great day,
• India
30 Mar 09
We should always think positive and feel good. Moral of the story is self confidence. that should always be good, and th en the world is at your feet. Cheers.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
26 Mar 09
Okay let's talk about facial beauty as something physical and superficial setting aside opinion, inner being so on and so forth. It depends actually. When I am alone and nobody else is looking, I think I'm quite okay. Haha.(That's still opinion, right?) I mean, yeah, I guess I'm cute especially when my eyes narrow into a thin line when I smile. (Shucks). But when somebody who's prettier by my opinion, stands beside me, then the entire picture changes. That's when I begin to compare, and see the many imperfections like how my nose looks too large for my face, and my teeth protrude in a bothersome fashion when I smile so big. Things like that. In a scale of 100 being highest, I think I'm at 45! Haha. I deliberately chose my scale to be that way.
• India
30 Mar 09
No theressaiza, to me you are beautiful. Never compare yourself with others. You are a special person and Im sure you are very good looking. Dont be hard on yourself. There are really beautiful women in the world, but if we start comparing ourselves to them, we'll jusst end up with a low self esteem. So smile more often pretty eyes.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
30 Mar 09
Haha, my eyes can be deceiving. :-D
• India
27 Mar 09
hi ..everybody says i am cute, handsome and pretty good.
• India
30 Mar 09
Awsome combination. What do you do. Do the girls faint, left right and centre when you pass by.? hehe. Dont let it go to your head. Keep your feet firmly on the ground and you will rise sky high. Cheers.
@myhepeng (18)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 09
i think, i good looking... and i had a hight self confidence...i can make a women feels good when she with me...
• India
30 Mar 09
Well my good looking friend, so long as you make women feel good, and are not too egoestic about it, enjoy every moment of it. Cheers.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
27 Mar 09
i'll leave that up for others to decide.
• India
30 Mar 09
That means you are very pretty. cheers.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I don't think that I am pretty. I'm not a troll, but I don't think I am very pretty either. My husband says that I have a problem. I can't stand to look at myself in a mirror that shows me anywhere below my neck. I hate my image. I love who I am on the inside, but I hate the way I look. I know that sounds horrible, but I have been this way for many years. I can't even take a compliment well if it has anything to do with the way I look.
• India
30 Mar 09
Hey, thats called undervaluing yourself. Dont do it. You are beautiful in the inside and thats what really counts. Im sure you have a beautiful face and a slightly plump body, so dont let that worry you. My neice also has a very pleasing face and a very fat body. But she cares a damn and her confidence gets her everywhere. Dont let it undermine your confidence, for that is half the battle won. good luck.
• China
26 Mar 09
well. guess most of us ever do this becasue most of us seems satisfied with our appearance most of the time.and we need prasied ourslves at first then it can bring us confindence outside. it's just someway to to be self confindence and i think it will be specially useful for those lose confindence on themslves.
• India
30 Mar 09
Oh yes, having confidence in oneself is half the battle won. We must think of ourselves as pretty, no matter what the world thinks, for then only will we be able to take on the world heads high. cheers.
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
27 Mar 09
Well as you said beauty lies in the eyes of beholder and those who love us truly will always find us attractive and beautiful.From the point of view of our parents,how adorable and sweet we are for them. I will not say that i am beautiful but i am very thankful to God that he has made me like this and i am quite satisfied with my physical appearance.He has given me clarity of thoughts and mind and i am very obliged to Him.I am true ,sincere and dedicated towards my professional and personal life and everybody is satisfied with me,what else can i ask for more?
• India
30 Mar 09
Absolutely well said. What more can any body ask when they are satisfied with us. It shows you as a beautiful person on the inside too. Great going. Keep it up.
• India
27 Mar 09
for me i'm handsome and cute. It is not a lie. Character matters more than outer beauty.
• India
30 Mar 09
Hey mr. devil, im sure you must be turning the girls on ! Yes, with that and inner character must make an awsome combination. Wow. cheers.
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 09
actually, everybody in this world are pretty and handsome, but their personality can show the real them.... personality can make someone pretty, handsome, or even ugly.... just remember that someone pretty/handsome can suddenly become ugly or otherwise.... human body can change but personality is so hard to change... =)
• India
30 Mar 09
Yes, my pretty cieldz. The body ages and we lose our beauty, the character and nataure of a person is there forever. Thats why we say, dont go for external beauty in chosing a life partner, go for his nature, for that is what will stay life long. Well said.