What will you do if you caught your hubby with another someone in your own bed?

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
March 27, 2009 12:01am CST
Hey guys, I just posted this kind of topic for the purpose of discussions and I am not offending everyone here. Honestly if that would happen to my hubby I won't hurt them both. I will talk to them calmly and give them time to pack up things with my hubby and let them go away and never would let them back again. How about you, what will you do?
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hello mobhomeir! OMG! I don't even want to think about it. But well, I know it's impossible so let's say "what if" hehehe Ok, let's say, I don't feel well and I have to go home from work even if it's not time to go home. When I open the door, it's open. I wonder why. I silently go inside the house and getting ready for my phone because there might be "akyat bahay" and so I could dial 911 immediately. The house is still the same. No sign of anything and the things are in their proper places. I smiled and went to the bedroom because I know my husband was there waiting for me. When I open the door, I saw two people and they are both shocked to see me. I saw my husband and his mistress naked. My first reaction would be run away and look for a place where I could be alone. A hotel maybe where I could stay overnight. Then go back home and pack my things and will leave my cheating husband forever and there's no second chance.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Oh how sad! I hope it would never happen to you. I am sorry. Do I kindled your mind of having suspicion of your husband? Anyway I am already used to that because my hubby is very suspicious in whatever I do. he he he he he Thanks
• United States
27 Mar 09
hehhee..well, I just made a scenario but I trust my husband and he never cheated all his life..he said it's adultery..hehhee..
@sweetyethot (1738)
• China
27 Mar 09
If that happened to me,I would ask both of them to leave within 5mins.I'll try to keep calm before they leave.Then I may shout or cry, have a little drink.Then I leave,too.I cant live in the house where I had such terrible experience.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Yes I understand. That would be one of the best idea I would do...thanks
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
27 Mar 09
If that happened I would throw both of them out, but even he my man went to her house and slept around I would throw him out as well. I will just not accept infidelity. It is just not something I can deal with.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I understand that ma'm. If I would be in your place that's maybe what I would do also with my hubby..thanks on your opinion...cheers
@dong1970 (1573)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Let pit it another way if i caught my wife sleeping with another man.Definitely i could not imagine things if what will i do for them.I might kill them........
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Ohhh relax brother remember your blood pressure. I hope I did not kindled your mind of becoming suspicious of your hubby...he he he this is just something to be discussed. I know this wouldn't happen to us because we're different from others. Cheers brother....
@elghrasya (502)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I think if I saw my hubby with another woman in our own bed I see myself first crying because I can't take that scene and I will walk away. I will not hurt them physically but I will let them feel both the paid they let me feel. I am the type of person that will let someone pays for something bad or wrong he/she had done to me. I just don't forgive and forget easily. I will plan a revenge for both of them. I will let them suffer.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I have no idea what kind of revenge you're planning for. Maybe it would be different kind of revenge that would satisfies yourself. I guess it would be sweet revenge. If I would just know your hubby I will warn him. Thanks...
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I will do the same thing like you. I told my bf that if I caught him cheating on me, he can't talk and see me ever again.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Yes. Besides there would still be a lot of more than him around the corner but of course honest and loving bf ...thanks for your share
• China
27 Mar 09
Same to you! Calmly let them go, with a broken heart. Throw the bed out!!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Yes...just be careful in throwing the bed you might hit them and killed them...