'a man never cry' do you think it is true?

India
March 27, 2009 8:47am CST
i think it is rubbish all of you who think that they are emotionless than i would like to tell them thatevery human beings cry when they feel bad and every man is happy when they are happy it is ot like that only woman do all the crying if a child dies do you think a maother will cry and the father will do nothing!!!!!! this is our stupid mind that makes us to believe all this and thise people who publisis itbut if you do not think what i am writing is not true themn please respond me back.have a good day.
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@la_chique (1499)
27 Mar 09
Men hardly ever cry because they tend to have a better hold on their emotions, also because women know they will get sympathy from cyring whereas men just seem to be weak. Men do cry though and there's nothing wrong with that.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
29 Mar 09
sometimes i think they will cry.
• Israel
7 Apr 09
That's definetly not true. I know and seen guys that cried in movies or in sad situations. I barely cry, but that's just me.
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@sweetyethot (1738)
• China
29 Mar 09
Its absolutely fine for a man to cry.Crying is a good way to relax.Dont you think?So Im with you.
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@csrobins (1125)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Men may not cry as much for different reasons: they may be trying to hold back because it is not as socially acceptable in our culture. It may be because they have trained themselves not to cry as an outlet for their emotion, and choose another outlet, and it may be their personality, or they are trying or think they need to appear strong for others. I went through a pahse where I didn't cry ever and I'm a female. But I think it's mainly because men have different ways of showing emotion and feel pressure socially.
• India
27 Mar 09
yes i too consider this as rubbish.men do cry n they ve equal amount of emotions.being a girl i say this because till date which ever men im familiar like dad,brother,boyfriend,friends they are quite emotional.if i take exmp of my dad i find him the most emotional man in the world he cries if see any one in pain n do his level best to make thingh easy.my boyfriend cries every now n then for me.
• India
27 Mar 09
lucky you,for getting good people i life and i feel really good that you are really respectig my point of view menn have emotions and a lot of men sometimes cry in public and people say hat the ma is very weak and when a woman cries hey say that the woman is emotionally intelligent .weird isn't it?
• India
27 Mar 09
yes it's weird i think men cries deep from heart rather than women..
@ryepes (20)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
both men and women cry ... only that womens tears are so shallow that it falls quicly.
@riyasam (16582)
• India
27 Mar 09
i think it is all societys fault.it has projected man as a person who does not show his emotions that includes he does not cry also.but i know this to be false as my hubby and many of my male friends do show their emotions.
• India
27 Mar 09
you are right and i totally with your point of view thanks for responding.
• United States
27 Mar 09
Men do cry that is the truth of it. everyone does at some point in time of there life they cry. For example i had never seen my brother cry not once ever..UNTIL my grandfather passed away and i never seen him cry like tht before and even though he tried to hold it in he couldnt. Ive seen ex bfs cry and some didnt even know i knew about it but they do cry no matter how strong they pretend to be sometimes.
• India
27 Mar 09
yes men do cry even like a baby
@hershiez (464)
27 Mar 09
Hell no! It's not true. Most men are not just showy whenever they have problems and pain inside.
• India
27 Mar 09
they are a little shy not because they are but because of thier bad neighbourhod in which thy liv in.
@snow8515 (170)
• China
27 Mar 09
Yes, I think crying is a good way of vent. As you say, most people consider a real man never cry. Maybe that is one of men's personalities. However, men should also have another performence-heartthrob.
• India
27 Mar 09
a real man cries and a stupid and a narrow minded buries in it in his own heart and die of depression,thanks for respondig and have a nice day.
@ryepes (20)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
man has an emotion ... crying is part of it... so man do cries ... in happiest moments and at burial of a bestfriend... lol
• India
27 Mar 09
ya your right have a nice day
@mymytri (2032)
• India
27 Mar 09
NO.I have many instances of such man.Althorugh many mes are strong enough to control their emotions few people are very sensitive.If they see any thing heart touching they start crying.Happy mylotting
• India
27 Mar 09
i am happy you have seen the truth but there ar people who are ion the illuson that men never cry, thanks for responding.
@galileo2008 (1142)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Men are tough. It's true. They are tough on the outside, but human as they are, they also have emotions. They can cry, shead tears and even scream. They are not robots, they are humans just like women. But they are expected not to cry infront of other people, society expects them to be tough, to show no emotions. This is the reason why more men suffer from heart problems because they just keep their problems to themselves.BUt I believe that a real man cries...I've seen my father cried when my mom left, I've seen my brother cried when he was detained after he got arrested, I've seen my boyfriend cried when he had a big problem. I've seen them cry, and they are real men.
• India
27 Mar 09
i am happy to hear from you the examples youve set are amazig you really have a rocking life and have a cool family i hope all the people in this world be a little like us and lok at this problem which a lot of them think is not a big problem,it is ot that man cannot express himself well but is a little shy not because of his behavior but because of the people;s behaviour towards them ,thanks for responding and have a nice day.
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Hi there. I think that's quite an out-dated way of thinking. I wouldn't think any less of a man who allows himself to cry. Crying provides people with much-needed catharsis and is actually something healthy to do once in a while. I don't think it would be fair to guys for us to deprive them of such a thing.
• India
27 Mar 09
your a smart girl but a lot of them are ot like you they are narrow minded and have A HABBIT of belevig things which they see or hear i do not know whoo started it but all i know is i dso not respect it and hope people stop saying that ,thanks for responding.
• Canada
6 Oct 09
I think it's a load of crap. Men need to realize that they can cry if they need to. Emotion has to come out somehow, and crying is much better than yelling at people around you and hurting them with your temper. This applies to both men and women. Both genders should be able to cry to express emotion if they need to.
• Canada
6 Oct 09
I think it's a load of crap. Men need to realize that they can cry if they need to. Emotion has to come out somehow, and crying is much better than yelling at people around you and hurting them with your temper. This applies to both men and women. Both genders should be able to cry to express emotion if they need to.
• United States
30 Mar 09
Yes I think men cry, they might not cry as much as woman and they might not cry in front of people but im sure they get tears!
• Australia
30 Mar 09
Hiii. No. Man also are human. Human have many sensitive and behaviour. Maybe, you have never seen men to be cried. It does not means that they are never cry.
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Hey there! Every one cries. Even Arnold Schwarzenegger cry! Yes, that is right. A friend of him said that Arnold's eyes were watering when they were watching Titanic. He even said that Arnold told him that he can't stand it that he's gonna cry, but a Arnold's friend told him not to cry because there are a lot of people who can see him crying.
• India
29 Mar 09
I think its not true. every people who has the heart will cry in some situation.
@sql_cell (1429)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 09
each person has their own emotions. men can only cry, but sometimes men often hide when weep