How do i overcome the feeling of low self esteem
29 Mar 09
Hi, Low self-esteem is coming b'cz of lack of courage,the apprehension of loosing her is abstaining U to express Ur feeling. Gather courage,observe her body-language/words/signals minutely,analyze what she is meaning?In appropriate(favorable) time,ask her the vital question-"Do you want to mean whether I love U?and carry on loving U passionately, in future(inspite of all odds)?"Then,the Answer is.... Best of Luck! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
• United States
28 Mar 09
You are unfortunately doing what the world tells you to do. You are looking for your self esteem to be wrapped up in what you look like instead of building a personal real relationship with your Creator. You were created in God's image. He knew you when you were in your mothers womb, He made you just the way He wanted and needed you to be. The closer you grow to walk with Him the more confident and self assured you become because then you are looking inside rather than outside at yourself. We all have weaknesses and strengths. The most beautiful person (on the outside) can become ugly very quickly when they open there mouth and the same goes true that an 'ugly' person can become beautiful. What is inside the person truly makes real beauty. You become more complete the closer you become to God.
28 Mar 09
I think it is a very hard thing to do really, you have to make the most of your best features and make yourself feel as good as anyone else, I think working on your personality is a good thing as really your inner beauty will win out in the end..but always remember beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and if you feel good about yourself, walk with confidence even if you have to fake that part a bit...confidence shows and can fool people how you really feel about yourself....good luck....