Do you Rate Your People around?

India
March 29, 2009 1:48am CST
Hi, Starting from your family,friends,peer,subordinates,boss,neighbours...do you rate them? He is friendly,she is arrogant,he is snob,she is adjusting,he is a duck & so on...! How do you do?On insidence/instances or just GUT-Feeling? How far Ur rating correct? =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
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• Pakistan
29 Mar 09
Every person is respectable. If I wish that all the people should behave with me in respectable manners, then I must behave with them in respectable manners. Rating some one or some group of people is not bad. Classifying them is or rating them can be useful, but we should think that every one is good. We should search for the goodness of people living around us. We should behave good with bad people and after then we should expect that they will do good in response of our goodness.
• India
29 Mar 09
yeah....you have to rate people around you.....its natural...rating people behind there back is bad but rating them...in other words telling your friends what you like about them and what you don't is what its all about..
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• India
29 Mar 09
Good ! & Beside Friends? Thanks for responding.
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@Aquilis (175)
29 Mar 09
I would answer that question with another question - How would you feel if you knew that everyone who walked past you in the street, every person who saw you each and every day was passing judgment on you?Personally I hate the thought that someone who does not know me would possibly think that they are in a position to accurately work out who I am. The same goes for those who know me too. Just because they are better acquainted with me, or my friends does not mean that they know how I am feeling at that moment, or my reasons for acting in a certain way. For these reasons I always try not to judge others, no matter how obvious their motives and reasoning may be, I do not know exactly what they are thinking and so it is not my place, nor would it be fair for me to pass judgment on them.
• India
30 Mar 09
Hi, U've Strong Reasons. I respect Ur viewpoint. thanks,from bottom of my heart-4 ur response!
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
20 Apr 09
For first, I don't have anyone from my family who is mylotting so, there is no option for me to rate them but if I had some person from my family decides to work here then I will definitely rate them positive. I don't like rating negative and has seldome rated anyone negative. YOu also got a + from me!