How would you react with people around you who are hypocrite?

@Bebs08 (10689)
United States
March 29, 2009 6:32am CST
It makes me feel sick.. hahahaha they are very good in saying things, Very pleasant when they are with the group and yet in their own lives they are not what they are saying or telling. They pretended to be good and kind hearted but whew!!! deep inside them is not what we are expecting. I feel bad about this people specially if they are leaders of some organization. I lost my respect.. hahah What did you do to handle these type of people? I don't know how to react on them..
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17 responses
• United States
3 Apr 09
I would just start writing down everything they said, they would ask you why but you don't have to tell. Soon they will stop talking to you and then you can sleep better at night.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
hahaha.. you always have a unique style of attack which is great!!!
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I just like you friend feel bad having to come across with this kind of people. That they seem to do totally the opposite of what they say or do. I loss my respect with this people and feel bad for them for they live in pretenses. I am a person that what you see is what you get. though people may find me tactless and mean but I prefer that way than being seen as someone who is timid and nice that it is just a mask. As much as possible if I come across this kind of people I don't tend to be super nice at time. I act civil with them knowing who they really are.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Exactly right my friend!!! I am sick with that people who are paying nice but in reality? they are tigers and lions hahahaha... biting anywhere.
@silverjam (969)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Well it happends; but honestly am not very much affected w/ people like this. I mean I can ride-on w/ their styles and I don't really care wether they are hypocrite or just being plastic as long as they don't pry on me. What really bothers me are those insecure ones who try to put you down in order to uplift themselves and gain popularity. Am really sick of these kinds.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Oh!! that is another type.. that is worst that hypocrites hahahaha... I am sick with these kind of people too.
• India
30 Mar 09
OH dear, I usually steer clear of hypocrites. Can't bear to be in their company for a long time. :) Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Me either.. I can't bear to be with them..
@sisterjinx (1136)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Sad to say that probably more people are hypocrites in one way or another than are not. But that being said I think that you are speaking of the extreme outright hyporcrite. I know the type. The guy that tells his children not to lie or worse yet accuses your child of lying and then sits in front of you and tells nothing but lies that you KNOW are not true. The extremely "Religious" person that faithfully attends church and preaches to any who will listen and then turns around and tells jokes not fit for mixed company in front of you. Yup I've met my share and I do my best to simply avoid their company as much as possible. Now I know you can't avoid them all nor all of the time. Those times when I must be in their presence I usually just live by my own values of letting people live their lives as long as it isn't hurting me. Which means biting my tongue and getting through my time with them quite often.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Oh!! that's it.. extremely religious!! just for a show but in reality? they are nuts.. that's what I am talking about..!!! hypocrites!!!
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
30 Mar 09
If I could help it, I wouldn't want to be around those kind of people. But if I couldn't avoid them, I'd rather not say a word and just smile at them.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Well, smile at them? hehehe maybe I could do that..but and angry smile.. hahahaha
@succed (879)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I hate hypocrisy, my experience is a great deal because this people are church goer. I was new and still learning people's behavior at church. Over the 2 years of time I have decided to cut myself and never go to church ever again. This is my experienced, at this particular church, people were very nice, they always had this wonderful smile like they don't have issues or problem. When Pastor start to preach that word of God all I have noticed 90 percent is "You have to give 10 percent tight of your gross income" and he does repeat it like we never heard him. This congregation has 200 members and guess what! One person I knew he gave $6000 a year to this church when he doesn't have anything. He could have use it to pay off his debt, and of course I was one of the member I gave total of $2000 out of $10,000 gross salary a year. That's 20%, here's my family is begging for a pound of rice I can't even give to them because the church was asking my left over money which I am supposed to help my poor family back home. I said that's it, done! This people are enriching themselves by asking this poor peoples money and who was going to rich the Pastor and the Family. They are driving this big nice car and trucks that normal people could not afford. They have a 3 to 4 story house that you would never see around. I mean their house worth a million bucks each. This pastor's family do not work. Where in the world they get all this money. ahaha of course from stupid people like me who got robbed yearly. Im not stupid anymore and im done giving them my hard earn money.
@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Oh? that was a sad experience. I am also giving my tithe offering but I know my pastor is not using them.. He is paid by the conference not solely from my tithe.. and some of that money was used for missionary work and other projects.
@suspenseful (40316)
• Canada
29 Mar 09
It does not bother me. I mean if it did, I would let these pretenders influence my life and tell me what to do. I cannot understand how someone will up and quit a church, not because the minister said that Lot's Wife turned into a pumpkin but because Mrs. Bigwigs starting gossiping about them? Or you quit the university because so and so said to your face, that you did a wonderful thing with your eyes and behind your back says, you are such a bore! etc. I also cannot read people's minds, but I know that sometimes people have bad days. I am a bit honest though, I tell everyone that I am really not that nice, so no one will consider me as a mean horrible hypocrite pretending to be nice and having a false smile on my face. I also do not expect people to be nice and kind, so when they are, it is a surprise and most of them are, unless they were having a particularly bad day.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Well, it bothers me a lot.. I don't like them that is why I want to avoid them because my days will be ruined listening to them.. but of course I don't want them to affect my church attendance. I just don't like them.
@salonga (27952)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
I don't like hypocrites. Even Jesus himself dislike them. So I always make sure I am dealing with sincere people. It's hard to interact with "plastic" people because you don't know which of the actions they are showing are true and which are not. When a person is hypocrite, he or she will not have a chance to gain good friends. Chances are that person will also have hypocrites as his/her companions.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Correct!! hahhha because they will compete of who is the best among them.. Faking... I don;t like that.
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
Just wont be vocal on that. Since ive done it for the past years, turned out the me being the one having it. What i did was to pray for them so that can handle when able to encounter such type of people. That they turned on to be god fearing, in a such a way things will work out... for the better.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Well, maybe in some point, we tend to be hypocrite but not like others.. hahahaha.. they are saying things and doing another thing. They just want to be appreciated that is why they are saying things that people would love to hear but deep inside them is not what they are saying.
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Hello Bebs08! I had a room mate who is hypocrite too. She's saying something about this and that and the next time, she said different again. I mean she's not consistent. She always said, "you know what..I don't like..I am not..I am.." but the next thing you know she will say something that is totally different on what she said. I actually don't like to talk to her anymore but since we are room mate, I can't avoid her..hehehe.. My reaction to her is just "ah ok" but deep inside, I don't believe in what she said anymore.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Pretty much annoying, isn't it? these people drives me nuts..
@walijo2008 (4647)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I have an aunt that is that way, she'll be nice and sweet to your face, but when you turn your back she changes and she'll tell ppl all kinds of things about you. She wants ppl to think she's a nice person, but deep down she isn't. I just try to stay away from her, and not talk to her too much, because she's nosey, she tries to get information from you so she'll have something to talk about. I can't stand ppl that are like that either, its sad because she's my aunt, but she's been like that all her life.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
oh!! she's not hypocrite but a backbiter and gossiper.. hahaha that is more than a hypocrite. That type of person is dangerous..yea, right!! the best thing for you to do is to stay away from her to avoid trouble.
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Hi Bebs! Again, these are not people that you want to have as a part of your life! If you know that they are not what the seem then you don't need to have them as part of the people you associate with! I don't want to deal with people that say one thing and do another! They are hypocrites and to me that is a liar and a fake! You can't believe anything that they say! If you know this about them, then why bother with them at all?
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
that's it!! I don;t want to be with them either. I want to have peace.. The best thing that I could do is to go away from them. I don't want to listen for it drives me nuts.
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Hi Bebs, I don't like to hang out with these type of people..It will stress me and I will developed negative thoughts which I don't like to happen... I meet some people here who are like that and I just stopped hanging out with them!
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Hi Che, Correct!! That is the thing I would do too. I don't like to be with these type of people. It will make me sick.. hahaha or maybe drives me nuts to hear the blowing of their horns.
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
Hi Bebs. If given a choice, I simply won't interact with people like that. But if I have to socialize with them, I would probably just go with the flow. Just let them blow their horn for as long as they are not offending me and other people in any way. I'd just tell myself that this will all be over soon. Thanks. Have a great day!
@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
hahaha... I can;t tolerate that one. I feel bad with people who keep on blowing their horn. I don't want to listen ehhehehe.. and my choice is to go away from them.. haahahah
• China
29 Mar 09
in reality, i think every one is a kind of hypocrite in our life. we take different atittudes for different person. we just may not be seriously. if i know this kind of people i would also pretended to be good and kind with him. there is no choice. that's what i thouht.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Well, good for you... you can tolerate these kind of people.. Not me.. I will shun away from them. I don't like to be with them. It bothers me when people acted that way.
@rymebristol (1788)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
i am a Hypocrite as well, so seeing and hearing hypocrite people, i see myself to them. i can motivate, help others in their hard times,give words of encouragement to live life to the fullest and make the most out of everything but D***, i can't even help myself to recover from all my hard ships and my lost. i supposed that i am a great pretender indeed. my family thought that i had already moved on with my life after what happened but little do they know is that i am still sailing up to now and drifting myself to an endless road of wandering.
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Oh!! I really admire you for being honest. Yes, I can agree with you in that opinion. There are people who do that just to cover their hurts.. I can understand that.. but to those who are doing it to gain the appreciation of others or to get attention? that is what makes me feel sick. But if people do that for recovering from hurts or whatever problems they have? I can consider it. Good luck to you..
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