Is it Embarrassing being a "VIRGIN" in the present time?

virgin - is it right to make fun of someone who is a virgiin?
@sandal13 (143)
India
March 31, 2009 12:09am CST
Hi friends just yesterday i met a friend of mine who was a bit disturbed over a fact that some of her hostel mates made fun of her because over a game she accepted that she was a virgin . she is 21 years old . But guys, tell me is it fair to make fun of someone who is a virgin? may be she didn't get any one interesting till date! but its insane to make fun of her .what would u say?
13 responses
@vworld4u (145)
• India
31 Mar 09
It is not a sin or embarrassing being a VIRGIN! It shows purity of mind, strength of mind! Also in modern era, even if one person loses her virginity due to a relationship which fails later, she has to feel sorry, not the person who is VIRGIN. Whatever your friend faced is a bad experience, but tell her to be honest with herself and strong with her will to answer such people who make fun of her. She is perfectly right in that sense and she has power to oppose these kind of people. World is a mixture of bad and good people and as modern era is taking our lives to tip of mechanical life, we are tending to get changed! So these kind of people increase in number and tend to convert others who are good too to their group! We need to fight against them in all the way! Good luck
@sandal13 (143)
• India
31 Mar 09
i absolutely agree with you. it defintly shows purity of mind n strength of mind! thanx for ur post,it was wonderful
@vworld4u (145)
• India
1 Apr 09
Thanks for selecting my response as a best response. I wish I could make a pure friendship with you :) Anyway have a wonderful life ahead :) Take care and be cheerful. Have a Good Day!
@bindishah (2063)
• India
31 Mar 09
Remaining a virgin or not is a personal choice and its simply wrong to make fun of a person for their choice. I mean there are many more things to life than just sleeping with someone. Your friend is only 21 years old..she should not fret about this.She should concentrate on the direction her life is taking. As far as the virgin part goes, when she should do it when the time and person are both right.
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@sandal13 (143)
• India
31 Mar 09
that was short n simple ,i think ur logic would definatly work for my friend! thanx bindishah
@psphacker (1055)
• United States
31 Mar 09
i do not know if it is embarrassing being a virgin in the present time but i am twenty years old and i am still a virgin because i become ugly thanks to an exstepfather i have a cross in my forehead caused by a car accident but the picture i have in my profile is me.
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@sandal13 (143)
• India
31 Mar 09
well, i feel sympathetic towards u ,and i hope u soon get someone who accepts you with who you r .thanx for ur response n good luck
@oshoke (57)
• Nigeria
5 Apr 09
You should be proud of it, cos at the moment Virgins over here in my country's traditions and in African tradition in general, they(virgins) are admired like Queens and Kings. I and my girl friend are Virgins and we look forward to be like that until we say I Do if God wishes. So be proud of it Note: in some cultures in my country located in the Western part of Africa, Kings can only get married to only girls that are virgins
@sandal13 (143)
• India
6 Apr 09
wow! god bless the two of you. i think with these responses my friend is realy going to come out of that horrible incident . thanx for sharing this ! and good luck
@sandal13 (143)
• India
6 Apr 09
wow! god bless the two of you. i think with these responses my friend is realy going to come out of that horrible incident . thanx for sharing this ! and good luck
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Of course! There's nothing fun in being a virgin. Maybe They're just jealous ha ha ha ha ha ha!
@sandal13 (143)
• India
1 Apr 09
oh yeah! i dint think from that angel..may be they r jelous of the fact that the girl has chosen to remain pure for the love of her life . hhhmm thanx for that view gyouswe911,cheers!!!!
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Cheers too!!! Oh and, by the way, tell me if your friend lose her virginity okay? Just an experience check. Ha ha ha! Jokes! Have a great day!
• India
7 Apr 09
Date????? I am sorry to say, she is a big BORE. I am not insulting her.First, its our own opinion whether we would like to be virgin or not. Its the situation and the person you are that would lead to all....What the **** looking for date? I hate people commenting " Tell me how can i say, i want to be your friend"....Dumb people, you speak to that person, There are some words like i love you that you need to tell from time to time....But if you are talking to a person and she/he is interested, what the crap you would offer a friendship? Just tell your friend to have a chill pill, Maintain her dignity...I am sorry, someone is making a fun out of her and rather than giving a tight slap she is looking for B frd...lolz... I am sorry, but sit besides her and explain her.....The way you allow others to treat yourself would define the motto of her life.... anyway...Thanx tubelight.
@sandal13 (143)
• India
26 Apr 09
hey taran...i appreciate what ever u said yes i agree its stupid to cry over this ...yeah actually there r lot of dumb ppl all around the world! but tell me r calling me a tubelight? really? thanx for the compliment god bless u
@coolcoder (2022)
• United States
5 Apr 09
I'm proud of the fact that I'm almost 31 and still a virgin. It's going to be my gift to the man I end up marrying one day. :D
@sandal13 (143)
• India
6 Apr 09
wow! that was sumthing lady! i congratulate u . awsome god bless u and good luck for ur future husband
@taoyao99 (31)
• China
2 Apr 09
uh```i don't think it is a langhingstock that a girl is a vergin.actually,i'm 22 years old and a virgin,too.on the contrary,i'm proud of this,that means i am serious and conscientious with my love,and i'll enjoy it only with my husband in the future
@sandal13 (143)
• India
2 Apr 09
well well taoyao99 , yes its true that its not sumthing to be ashamed of , and keeping it safe for ur love or husband would be the best gift for him . thanx for the post , n happy mylotting
• India
1 Apr 09
well you mention it happened with your friend and you answer like it lifted your spirit is that happened with you its fine girl you must be proud of your self that your are something which most of the girls in your hostel are not,I mean seriously I live in metro city and most of the girls are open minded but still I am virgin because I feel its like a gift to your life partner whom he will cherish till he die seriously nothing like giving your virginity to your partner.Plus you will not feel that guilt I mean its matter of choice and instance some time its like a good time and good person whom you dont mind loosing your virgnity but I feel most of the guys are bad *** (being a guy I know what guys are like),so nothing you should be ashamed of .Instead be proud of your self. take care
@sandal13 (143)
• India
1 Apr 09
hey aniket i think u r an intelligent person, well yeah it lifted my spirits cos i m in the same boat as well , n i think we should be proud of that ! thanx for the post by the way friend
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I dont think there is something embarassing by being a virgin. Im 19, and i decided to maintain it and give it to my husband in the near future. Its just about preferences and how you want to live your life. And im very proud of it. I also believe that culture and norms affect people's view with it. Like for me, i am living in a country that majority of the people are conservative.
@sandal13 (143)
• India
31 Mar 09
yes i agree it also depends on the culture u r brought up! even i am proud of myself being a virgin and proud of my country too. thanx for ur post
@feepah (79)
• China
9 Apr 09
i have to say it's disrespectful,for me,i would never have fun on that,i agree with the saying the previous responder made,it was childish~~
@HelloMickey (1663)
• Hong Kong
7 Apr 09
I don't make fun of someone who is a virgin. The person who makes fun of it is childish.
@dcaisj (41)
• China
31 Mar 09
I think it is not embarrassing being a virgin in the present time!I'm twenty years old and I never make fun of every one!It isn't wrong to do like this!