Your best friend is a male or female?
By med889
@med889 (5941)
11 responses
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
31 Mar 09
My very best friend of 27 years is a female. Me being a female also can confide in her for almost anything. I also have a male best friend and sometimes I feel like I cant confide in him for everything. He puts his opinion in too often where my female friend lets me talk and waits for me to ask her for her opinion
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I tell him everything and his the first person that i ran to for help. 
@med889 (5941)
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1 Apr 09
I'm sorry that you don't have a best friend. I have many friends and I have chosen my boyfriend to be my best friend because I can share everthing with him. Try to find one you too. Sometimes its good to have one. No matter how much you have learnt by yourself, The day you will find a best friend you will see it is totally different. Everyone is proud of himself and having someone of your own besides you makes you feel better.
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@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
1 Apr 09
hey man i can understand ur feelings since i m the same way like ur ,i never had a best frend and i 2 learned to vive the life the hard way , but many a times i feel very angry and i felt like killing someone , i was a real devil for 15 years of my life , but recently i met a sweet girl on net ,she is very understanding , and helps me every time. its just like i share every thing with her since she is very trustful and helpful.
i suggest u should also find some frend , i no how it feels to be alone , and all the time ager is on ur head , so if u want to help ur self u will have to find a frend, i would suggest try find a girl frend who pleads to u before u plead towards her . she will be very much trustworthy.
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@tenchi18ph (176)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Well for me, I only got female best friends. Maybe, I'm a little bit of comfortable having friends of females than males. Scientifically said it opposite gender attracts. When I'm talking to them, I tend up of telling all my secrets and I know that they understand me more unlike having a male friends that will always make fun of you. One of the reason that I prefer a female best friend is that whenever I got a problem on my relationship, I always listened to what they always say especially the point of view of a woman.
@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
1 Apr 09
yes ur 100% right , its just like that 4 me 2 , males make fun but females undrerstand me.and they take me seriously 4 wht i say.
@plovepforever (35)
• China
1 Apr 09
haha,at once my best friend is male,but now he becomes my boyfriend.
what's more,i have the female best friend,too.sometimes i think a male may be better to understand me.
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I have both, a male and female best friend 
They are my childhood friends and whom can really understand me. 
They are my childhood friends and whom can really understand me. @kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
1 Apr 09
4 me my best friend is a girl , actually we met on net , i haven't seen her yet , we r friend becaz she is very understanding and carrying person , she helped me when i was very lonely . and now its my turn to help her ,and im surely going to do that . i have male friends to but they make fun of my knowledge ,whereas she takes me seriously. she respects my knowledge and praises me . no she is not my special friend but just a gd friend.
i believe,it is better to make handful of friend but they should all be good.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
31 Mar 09
Both my best friends are female. And we always sharing our girls problem and other personal matters together. We had known each other since from childhood. Even now, after we had married, and lived in separate cities, we still tried our best to keep in touch and chit-chat about everything whenever we can..
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
now i feel lucky! i have both.. LOL!
i love them both.. and everytime where together, a battle of the sexes always occur. we always have a never ending debate about everything. that's the reason why we stick together. hehehe
happy mylotting!
