Would You?

@p1kef1sh (45640)
March 31, 2009 1:07pm CST
Do you remember the film "Indecent Proposal"? In it a man offers a couple a $1 million to sleep with the wife. Lets up rate it for inflation to $5 million. Would you?
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53 responses
• United States
31 Mar 09
That is A LOT of money! But you have to be fair and explain all the circumstances. A real estate broker (her), and an architect (him) fall in love and get married. She finds the perfect spot to build his dream house, and they get loans to finance it. When the recession hits, they stand to lose everything they own, so they go to Vegas to have one shot at winning the money they need. Which is a really stupid idea! After losing at the tables, they are approached by a millionaire who offers them a million dollars for a night with the wife. Though the couple agrees that this is a way out of their financial dilemma, it threatens to destroy their relationship. But so does the fact that they are dirt poor. In their situation yes I would do it because I also have 4 children to consider. And if it destroyed my relationship so be it. At least I knew I had enough money to take care of my kids.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
They have to come first of course. But what about your happiness? Personally, whilst the offer is tempting, I don't think that I could do it.
@Boofybutt (316)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I would let my husband sleep with another woman for $5 million dollars, I'm not sure how he'd feel about it though.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
More importantly. How would you feel afterwards?
@Humbug25 (12551)
31 Mar 09
Hi ya p1kef1sh NO!!! Let's see how many women say no and guys say yes LOL . I don't think you could think much of your partner if you could do it! I was going to ask you what you would do but I think I know the answer. I also think that it is very easy to say what you think you would do in that situation but what you actually would do is sometimes something very different!! LOL
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
I think that you do know the answer Humbug. I come way cheaper! LOL. I don't think so.
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@Humbug25 (12551)
31 Mar 09
A couple a grand and your anyone's eh p1kef1sh!! LOL
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
A good fish supper these days Humbug. LOL. Not P1ke though!
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@dawnald (84142)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Mar 09
If the guy looks like Robert Redford (circa 20 years ago) I might think about it. Kids college taken care of. Financial security. Hmmm..... If the guy doesn't look so good or smell so nice, I might have to pass. Shallow, shallow Dawn... Ain't nobody gonna ask me anyway. lol
@dawnald (84142)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Mar 09
He definitely hasn't aged well NOW but back then I thought he looked pretty decent. I'd really rather have Cary Grant or Gene Kelly circa 1945 though.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
Hang on Dawn. Just practicing my "Singin' in the Rain" dance"........
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@dawnald (84142)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Mar 09
If you can get the smile down, you're in...
@mands61123 (2098)
4 May 09
hey p1shy i actually caught a bit of this the other day and asked my boo the same question he said he'd pay the guy a tenner to have me :( lmao If i'm honest unless my child/family member needed life saving surgery and that was the only way i could finance it then no but you never really know until your asked the question now do you! :)
@p1kef1sh (45640)
4 May 09
I'll send my bank account details Mands! What cheek. You're a lovely woman.
5 May 09
don't tempt him we're peppered i'm warning you he'll be arranging it lmao
@SViswan (12071)
• India
19 Apr 09
hmmmm....tough one. I might not be comfortable....but that sure is a lot of money. I guess it's a decision my husband and I would have to think about together. My first instinct, I know, would be 'NO! NEVER!'......but I also know that I've been convinced to do things I don't really like or are comfortable with....but those didn't involve sacrificing my relationship. So, I can't say really....depends on the talk I have with my spouse....and I MIGHT just end up leaving him and taking all the money myself....lol Ok, I'm ready for all the bashing that's going to come my way...considering Indian standards and all:P
@p1kef1sh (45640)
19 Apr 09
I won't tell if you don't!!! LOL.
@SViswan (12071)
• India
20 Apr 09
hahah...the brickbats will come either ways. Ok, now I'm back to talking terms with my husband and so the answer is a definite NO! and I'll fight my husband if I have to. Well, this frame of mind is till the next argument we have:P
@camomom (7536)
• United States
5 Apr 09
NO!!! No amount of money is worth that to me. My love and trust mean more then money to me.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
5 Apr 09
That's god to hear. Personal integrity is everything.
@camomom (7536)
• United States
5 Apr 09
To me it is, I don't know about some others though.
@MsTickle (25058)
• Australia
3 Apr 09
Picture me laughing so hard that I split my sides and pee my pants...oh, sorry, I do that anyway. There are two chances that would happen...none and Buckley's. so, of course, my answer is yes.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
3 Apr 09
LOL. Of course. Heck if I trekked all the way out there and you said no! LOL. (Such a cocky lad).
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@MsTickle (25058)
• Australia
3 Apr 09
No comment.....(tongue in cheek)
@indahfth (11171)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 09
something that is very mad when done. there are many ways to get money. with sleeping with other people is to get quick money, but after that endure sin. for us Indonesian people, this is very shameful and dishonorable. who do not have a religion.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
2 Apr 09
You should not do anything that goes against your sense of right and wrong. Thank you.
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@indahfth (11171)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 09
I certainly will do something right, even though sometimes I is not aware of the action that is not true. I will try to do what is right.
@ANTIQUELADY (36471)
• United States
2 Apr 09
sounds interesting, pike, lol. might have seen the day i would have for 5 million. now i wouldn't find anybody that wanted to. lol
@p1kef1sh (45640)
2 Apr 09
LOL. You never know. I understand that there are men that get very turned on at the thought of getting jiggy with mature ladies.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36471)
• United States
2 Apr 09
i sure haven't seen any of them, lol did u sing last night? i got a tick out of that. have a good one.
• United States
1 Apr 09
I don't know that I'd be that cute to have such an offer made *LOL* But if he was hot, it was cash, & I took the guy in for an AIDS test & STD's perhaps. But even 5 mil wouldn't last long now days, one would still have to work after they bought the house of their dreams, home, paid debts ect....
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
Gosh that all sounds very high maintenance. Maybe $50 Million would be better? LOL.
• United States
1 Apr 09
Well ya figure after we buy the estate of our dreams it'll be all gone. No point in doing such a thing if there isn't enough profit *LOL* Hey property taxes & the utilities on a sprawling estate are alot ya know! *LMAO* One can dream of upgrading their lifestyle and then being able to maintain it too!
@mummymo (23707)
1 Apr 09
Would you? I'll answer if you will! lol xxxx
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
Only if you were the person that I had to get cosy with Mummymo! XXXX
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@mummymo (23707)
1 Apr 09
You stole my answer!!! Last time I let you go first! Still love you though! xxxx
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
Wow sounds good to me but my bf loves me so much and he's a jealous guy. He wouldn't let any guy to touch me or sleep with me.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
Anyway. You're going to be in the chocolate factory! LOL.
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
Yes right
@mimpi1911 (25477)
• India
1 Apr 09
I don't think, I would. While most of us have to seriously question just how much our own integrity is worth, here is a story of an honorable clerk, Chris Connelly of Rockaway Point, who deliberately refused to sell out his values, not even for $1 million dollars! Read this if you have missed it out: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/263709
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
That was a very decent thing to do and restores my faith in humankind somewhat.
@mimpi1911 (25477)
• India
2 Apr 09
Thanks. I think at the end of the day I am just left with my values and integrity.
• United States
1 Apr 09
if my hubby didnt care i would do it.. it would help us out a ton if we can not let the incident screw up our relationship.. he would just be having my body not my soul or mind
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
How about if the guy was Mr UGLY! LOL. Someone that you found physically repulsive. Is it still a starter?
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• United States
1 Apr 09
i would try lol.. may not make it through it but give it a shot so it would benefit my family
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
31 Mar 09
Although I need the money right now, I don't think I could go through with something like that. I mean it would eventually tear us apart and it would make us have trust issues also. I know it appears I am a prude but I am not..It is a moral thing for me yes, but it is also a self respect thing too..Now if I was drunk I'd probably think differently..but no chance of that so I am safe..and If my husband accepted such a proposal then he be the one on his back not me..lol
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
I think that it would change things Becky. Well of course it would. You'd be $5 million better off!
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
2 Apr 09
Okay, If you do I'll do it. Then I would sail around the world on a cruise ship. Might even stop by to see yeah..be cool huh?
@kittenclaus (1393)
• United States
31 Mar 09
YES, YES 5 million YESES! I would sleep with another man for 5 million, I would let my husband sleep with another woman also for that kind of money. We could pay off our mortgage and all our other bills. Add things to our home we've talked about. Start a business, the possibilities are endless. Any offers? LOL
@p1kef1sh (45640)
1 Apr 09
You seem very certain. Would how the guy looks be important?
• United States
1 Apr 09
Of course it would be wonderful if he looked good. But to be honest, the shape we are in right now (found out today hubby is getting laid off) he could be the ugliest man ever. Close my eyes and a a little later hand me the money.
@dorypanda (1584)
31 Mar 09
Well, if he only wanted to SLEEP then yup, that'd be fine with me, no shenanigans though. He'd also have to provide at least one bar of Cadburys chocolate. ;)
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
So save the money and give my favourite niece a bar of CDM eh?
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@dorypanda (1584)
1 Apr 09
Yup, :) (I hope no-one mis-understands this conversation). (Just to clear up any misunderstandings......I AM 34 and I am a fish). ;P
@dragon54u (31653)
• United States
31 Mar 09
Nope. I'd have that act in my memory the rest of my life and I wouldn't want to live with that. I never saw the movie, the subject didn't really appeal to me.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
As Winston Churchill said when a society lady said that she'd sleep with him for £5,000 but "What do you take me for" when he offered £5. "Madam. We know what you are. It's the price that we have to negotiate". I would have been very surprised if you had answered any differently.
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@dragon54u (31653)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I remember that story, I admired his sense of humor.
@34momma (13893)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I would say Hell Yeah!! i would put a bow on his A$$!!! and give him away on a silver platter!! 5,000,000 bucks, man please!! of course i would. and if they wanted me instead then I would do that too! come on we are talking alot of money here, not a chicken dinner!!
@p1kef1sh (45640)
31 Mar 09
That's what I like about you Momma. Now beating about the bush! LOL.
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@34momma (13893)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I know the importance of money that's why. i know money is not everything, but i know that it's important when it comes to things that where money is needed. so would i give someone the best night of his life for 5 millions dollars? I sure would and let him even take a picture!! LMAO