motivations in life....

@HelScream (2822)
Philippines
April 2, 2009 3:13pm CST
when you feel down and weary and everything's seems so meaningless but life must move on what keeps you going and what motivates you to go through life and leave it even how hard life can be...be positive they say but the question is how what are your activities what do you say to yourself....I know we cont have any choice but to leave life for theirs no other way to it except death ,I am not saying I am down right now but I want to know your part know how each one of us survived this crazy world full of problems.... For me let me start sharing. Life for me is not a bed of roses been hurt and fall in love again only to find out that I will be hurt again but not for now...but I dont look at it in a negative way now I look at it as a challenge a test on how strong I am to face lifes hardest moment the decisions you make and facing this problems is the worst but you have no other choice but to face it. What motivates me to move on is the promise of a brighter tomorrow the thought of someday somehow life would be better and I know I will be there when this things will happen. And that will happened no one can break me or shake me for in the past trials made me strong and for this I will be a better man in the future. What about you my friends what motivates you in life....
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@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
2 Apr 09
I want to see the love of my life, I want to see how she looks like, and am I gonna love her enough to eternity. I also want to make more than million dollars in the future. I want to see if I can achieve this dream in my lifetime. That's what motivates me the most.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
looks like you have a great motivation list my friend those are among the few of my motivations too just a part of it just keep it up my friend and I know you will get there somehow just take it one step at a time.
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
2 Apr 09
Yes I like your motivation. Tomorrow things will be better. What kept me going, is getting my check-up. I was so down in the last year. The doctor said I had a depression. They gave me antidepressants. I not only got depressed more, but gained 20 kilos. Lucky for me I did gain 20 kilo's. This is what encouraged met to stop taking the medication and go for a check-up. Seems I was not depressed. My white blood cell's. My body was not producing enough. I needed iron tablets. And within one month, I was feeling a lot better.! I can concentrate, remember things, stay awake and enjoy my days a lot more! I guess you can say the iron motivates me. Take care.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
hahha yeah iron did motivate you my friend and hearing you say this things looks to me that your doing good.... I know you can continue all the things that will make you motivated my friend you have a good start.....I am happy for you
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
4 Apr 09
Thank-you very much! I am happy too. I can finally do the things I need to do. Only problem is losing the extra weight that I had gained. Still need to lose 10 kilos. And it is summer! Take care.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
ok loosing that extra weight is no problem try to be very active in mylot and sleep less lmao and think more this is my secret to stay thin lol hahha really i never gain any weight by being busy all the time.. and its very productive too and at the same time you are loosing those weight. take care to my friend
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
i try to see myself, i mean like i am trying to picture myself discourage and hopeless situation. and when i see myself in that situation i wanted to change myself and like to say to myself not to give up. and also i do try to watch movies that are inspiration those movies that i can relate and with good stories of hope and perseverance and faith. that really uplift my spirit. i have been through so much . and those things kept me alive till now. and i feel i still need those inspiration through this crazy life that i had been living. i wish that life will change soon for the better. for something that i am expecting for long time ago. besides that i read some books of survival and triumph from other people. and some are real live stories shared by some people i know or get to know or meet. and they actually encourage to do those things that they have done so that i will be successful like them. cause those people had same situation in their past with my present situation. and they surely know what are the steps that i should take. actually those are precious advises and they are not forcing me to follow. of course it will still depend on my choice and decision in life if i will follow their advices.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Well I know you will get what you want if you really want it that badly my friend wishing you all the luck in your life ahead....
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
3 Apr 09
Life can be said a bed of roses. Don't forget roses got throne attached to it too! Till date I didn't get any motivation to face my problems. Till date I am running away from my fears in life. I don't know when I will get a power to face them all!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
3 Apr 09
Congrats. I have to climb the mountain yet. It is due and until June I have to find the solution otherwise things could be nasty for me!
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Yes I know that roses have thorns but if only petals you have there will be no thorns hahaha just kidding a bit my friend. I was ones like you I ran away from everything but only to face with the same problem over and over again but this time I am proud to say that I stood up for all of that there is to face and with that all my fears are gone and what I feel right now is only determination and will to carry on out each day of my life with a smile on face wondering what tomorrow will lead me.....
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Thanks my friend I am not yet that far on reaching the top of the mountain I can climb with you if you want remember its better climbing that mountain when you have someone with you its much easier that way I am here my friend if you need me you know what to do I am just a PM away I am willing to hear everything you have to say and try my very best to help you along with what ever you are going through you are not alone...... wishing you all the best.....
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@sarahong (91)
• China
3 Apr 09
HI, I'm feeling down ,and now i dont know how to make myself feel better ,so many problems in my life ,damn everything .....
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
sarahong remember after the rain is a rainbow just try to relax and think straight for you cant find solution to your problems if your hard on yourself.... I do hope you will be ok soon my friend
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
your always welcome sarahong you know sharing your problems with a friend would make the load much lighter why wont you share it with me or with us you fellow mylotters in this way you will feel much better and you will know that you are not alone on this one....
• China
3 Apr 09
thank you , your words make me feel better,i think i will be ok,i think i will be strong to face all the problem ,thank you ,my friend !
• India
3 Apr 09
hi howzitt in ur photo the fire keeps burning everytime...how u did that....what is the technique....ya life is hard when we come across helpless people..... but if u find even one in that crowd helpful u will feel like i am saved and protected from the drowning crowd...pass on some best sites which i provides job without investment....and they pay out perfectly. bye shek india
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
its an animated picture my friend you have to do animate it in order for it to move well this is not a simply done and I have my friend to do it for me... yes you are right my friend I have a friend too amongst the crowd and indeed that person helped me a lot..
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
3 Apr 09
Well, by always recognizing that life is MEANT to be difficult, that life without problems wouldn't be life. You sure have noticed that once you learn how to solve a certain kind of problem it a. seizes to be a problem and b. a bigger problem surfaces. So we have to learn to solve THAT kind of problem only to find, once we're apt at solving it, the whole process starting again and an even BIGGER set of problems comes up. Can't win....
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
yes life is indeed difficult but thats the beauty of leaving and the challenge of life....
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
3 Apr 09
my son is my motivation for everything. many days i just do not know how i will face the day and all its challenges and stresses but knowing he needs me gets me up and out of bed so i can set a good example for him that when the going gets tough the tough get going. i trudge along and get it all done because i know it will make his life better and easier in so many ways.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
mikeysmom your a very good parent that I can tell i salute you my friend
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
3 Apr 09
Everybody has his usual share of ups and downs in life and there are moments when we get paranoid or disappointed.Anger,frustration,sadness and depression engulf us and we feel like ending our lives.Anger dominates us when we lose control over situations .But life is a challenge ,a journey which everybody faces and positive attitude towards future makes it meaningful and worth living. Control over emotions,anger and depression is the keyword for gaining control over life.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
100% agree on you my friend but control seems the hardest thing one can do but to have this you can do anything .....
• Indonesia
3 Apr 09
For me what is the motivation is me myself, i come in this world so i live it, I have no complicated life, because i never have an assertion. I live my life like a water flow, what happen in outsite of my life, i never care, other people want to listen to me i respect them if no i still respect them, what happen to this world now is the responsible of us, starting by ourself :)
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
you do care my friend for you are part of this world maybe you just dot mind....I like the way you motivate yourself ......
@sayh123 (150)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
Wow!its great..I love your motivation.I know you are the person who satisfied in life and that is very help to other people who can read your article.I really appreciate your motivation but as of now, for me I've always motivate by the desire to do a good job and whatever my position im in.And also, I want to excel and be successful for what Ive been interested in my life both for my own satisfaction and for my part of my life especially my co workers.I know someday im a person that makes happy and ever after.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
you too sayh123 have a great motivations in life and a positive thinker I might add keep up and more power my friend.