girls how would you react?

@agrim94 (3812)
India
April 3, 2009 12:32am CST
If a guy who you slept with..random or your boyfriend and he told everyone about it , and all the details with lots of spices added. I know it is never proper for a guy or a girl to kiss and tell but many guys and some girls too do that.
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12 responses
• United States
5 Apr 09
i wouldnt care since im not shy or secretive about that sort of thing and girls talk about those kinds of things a lot but it just doesnt get back to guys like it would vice versa lol
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
6 Apr 09
i would still want what ever a couple did behind closed door should remain so because it can be very disrespectful when the listeners start asking questions like how good was she or does she give great head or u know all kind of things or when u entered what did she say..lots of things..i have heard people say it in boys hostel and let me assure you they go in each and every detail, every word said , every time a girl moans or what ever she does is told in detail even the moles on her body are discussed and if she somehow not able to please a guy `100% then choicest words are used.
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• United States
6 Apr 09
women share the same details
• United States
6 Apr 09
No not all women do. Maybe they tell a few details, but they don't go in depth, and not with just anyone but maybe their closest friends who they can trust
@Theresaaiza (9602)
• Australia
3 Apr 09
I know a guy like that who spreads to practically the entire world all the stuffs he'd done with his exes because he is consumed in so much resentment and anger over them for cheating on him. I feel sorry for him. I know he must have been really really hurt and this was own way of getting back at them. But I am also sorry for the girls because as a woman, no matter how big my mistake was, I still have a few shreds of dignity left by keeping details like that in secret. And I would hope my ex would keep that in secret too. Nobody, even the most wh*re of all wh*res, deserves being humiliated.
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
3 Apr 09
Well sometimes someone might say in heat of moment but he soon realize he did wrong by telling and ok if she cheated u break up ... now by telling these things to world it is not only humiliating her but also shows the world what kind of upbringing you had.
• Australia
7 Apr 09
That could be the case too. But I do understand why he did that. Sometimes, you do stupid things when you are emotionally hurt.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
some boys or girls feel that they are a good kisser or lover by doing that. but they are not realized that they are ruining their own self. every body who had heard it would afraid to make love them with he/she because they never want to object of a a gossip
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
22 Jan 11
Hi ifa thanks for the response and yes ur right .. if you kiss and tell no one is again going to have faith in you.
• India
7 Apr 09
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh oooooooops i am sorry to comment on it i have not got such maturity to comment on it just a small boy
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
7 Apr 09
Thanks for the comment prasanna.
@laglen (19783)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I would deny ever having been with him. Deny it till there is video, then deny it some more!
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
7 Apr 09
well thanks laglen , u can only deny to say 5 or 10 person and not whole of college and u can only deny if someone asks u, they would just give u looks and smile , in their own way telling you we know how much u like to give head or what u say when u know what i mean.
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
4 Apr 09
i dont mind to tell if she or he is my best friend.i love to share my happiness to every one who are my close friends.
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
6 Apr 09
Thanks bombshell, so you wont feel bad when he would tell the world what were the words you were saying when u and him were intimate and probably he would spice it up more than you ever said .
@winterose (39913)
• Canada
4 Apr 09
well I am a older woman now so that won't happen but when I was young if it happened I would never talk to that person again, that is totally disrespectful.
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
6 Apr 09
Yes it is very disrespectful to be like this and no one should do like this.
@asweetie (1188)
• India
3 Apr 09
This is one of the most humiliating thing that can happen to any girl. i KNOW THERE are countless guys who do this and what happens is they get famous as kiss and tell guy and then no girl dates thyem.. good thing i am yet to date someone but if someone does this to me i would chop off the head of that b*****d
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
3 Apr 09
You are always so violent sweety.. but i do agree with you it is humiliating to the girl, and even some guys are humiliated if someone is telling his exploits but i have seen in boys hostel, the guys comparing which girl did what , and who is better in oral or u know all kind of things and they seem to enjoy quite a bit about it.
@moondancer (7434)
• United States
3 Apr 09
You should never kiss and tell and if my guy did then that would tell me that he didn't respect me or care about me at all. I would never tell anything about the intimate details of our life to anyone. This is things to be done behind closed doors without anyone else there and not to be told to anyone else these details are to be left behind closed doors. Unless you are talking to a counselor and it's for the benefit of the both of you. Or if one of the people involved is abusing the other one in some way or hurting them. Then this they may wish to discuss with someone to figure out what to do. Then they should leave this person. Love should never hurt physically.
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
3 Apr 09
I fully agree with you moondancer about this thing. I dont expect myself ever to do this no matter what or let anyone talk me in to it when ever i find a girl who i would be intimate. It demeans not only her but the guy too . Shows world what kind of guy he is and looses all the faith of everyone.
@neknna (63)
3 Apr 09
Guys like that is very disrespectful and should not be trusted. Lucky me, I haven't encountered such kind of guys. We womens should be careful of trusting and believing such flowery words of such individual. They just want something from you and will dump you afterwards, at worst will be telling everyone that had happened between the two of you. sucks..
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
3 Apr 09
It sucks and it leaves a very bad taste in the mouth. and yes once many guys have fun with a girl then they would forget all the promises made to her..many guys are just looking for getting girls in bed and then count how many they got.
@paula27661 (15900)
• Australia
3 Apr 09
I would feel extremely hurt and humiliated if a guy I had been with shared our experience with other people and I tell you what is worse, and this has happened to me, is when some idiot decides to start a rumour about you and him being intimate and it never happened!
@agrim94 (3812)
• India
3 Apr 09
That is how some people are and they would start anything to get even with a girl for any reason, may be break up or girl just refusing his advances.
@ersmommy1 (12605)
• United States
25 Jan 11
I'd think he is a jerk. Not only that, but insecure. Otherwise I don't think he'd need to brag. That's just an awful thing to do.