what do you think of me and my boyfriend

United States
April 3, 2009 9:21pm CST
so we are going to be moving in when i get out of high school he will be buying a house and i get to live there for free we have been going out for about a year now and i no im in love with him but i dont know if i should go move in with him or mt famil idk what do you think
6 responses
• United States
4 Apr 09
This is your choice. If you want to move in with him then do it. If you need more time then take more time. It is whatever you feel comfortable with. It is a big step but it is not marriage. You can not move in or move in and if it is not working then move out.
@arkansos (546)
• India
4 Apr 09
You are kinda young. You should wait a few years and get head on life experience before you take such risks. I call it a risk because you really don't know how it will turn out. As long as two people don't live together, most irritating habbits are hidden. When they do, nothing is rally hidden from the other. It definitely is a different story then
@maezee (26893)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Well you should keep in mind to not move TOO far away just in case things don't work out. You have to be realistic about things. Just because you love him now and the relationship is working out now doesn't mean that it necessarily will be the same in six months. Keep your options open.
• Singapore
4 Apr 09
is not because is free than you moved in .is the feel you being with him others may hard to answer for you because we do not know what in your mine right now. first thing do your family member know you moved out with him? ask yourself you sure he is a guy you trusted cause you only know him for a year. do you'll already attached?or you'll just a normal friends?you think he will be your last man and your forever man ? all this question you might able to tell yourself a answer. before I'm married i moved to my boyfriend place i asked myself all this question, and i moved in after 4 year later we married . so is really depend on you. but you make me feel you had already decided to moved in and attach with him,am i right?
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
really? how old are you by the way? if you are mature enough to live with your guy, then go. but if you think you have to learn more and grow up. don't rush things now. i know times are hard but you have to think clearly that you need space too. is he going to marry you?
@xhaylea (363)
4 Apr 09
hmm, well if you feel its right, go for it! nothings stopping you. Just make sure you definitely want to live with someone other than your family, seen as your at a young age as you said you are leaving high school soon.