Friends who doesn't take care and is not sensitive to ur feelings

@ajithlal (14563)
India
April 4, 2009 10:02am CST
What will you do when you come across friends who doesn't take care or is sensitive to your feelings? What will you do when your friends hurt your feelings? How will you handle such a person?
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@Darkwing (21590)
4 Apr 09
I always try to talk things through, but not all friends want to listen if I've upset them, or they me. If they are inclined not to listen or talk with me about things, then I'll move on, because they're not true friends. Brightest Blessings.
@ajithlal (14563)
• India
21 Apr 09
I also think such people who doesn't be there and doesn't talk with us about things are certainly not true friends.
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@Darkwing (21590)
25 Apr 09
I feel that if they can't talk to you, they've either been "pretending" to be your friend or they feel guilty about something... perhaps a lie, or bending of the truth about who they really are.
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@ajithlal (14563)
• India
13 May 09
Some of my friends come to my house for borrow things and they don't return back and I feel sad sometimes that I miss my good things.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36491)
• United States
5 Apr 09
they are not friends if they friends if they do that intentionally.
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@ajithlal (14563)
• India
5 Apr 09
I also think friends who are there when we have money and does seems like busy when we are sad are not true friends.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36491)
• United States
5 Apr 09
i agree. good friends are hard to come by.
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@ajithlal (14563)
• India
1 Apr 12
It is easy to good friends, but the friends who cares and who love us without any conditions.
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I will tell her/him directly what's her/his problem with me. I'll also treat her/him the way he/she treats me so it's all fair.
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@ajithlal (14563)
• India
22 Apr 12
I think most times when talk to the friends directly, it might either work for bad or work for good or either increase the relationship or make it worse. Sometimes talking is better.
@ajithlal (14563)
• India
14 May 12
I think some people do understand our feelings and still does care for it and while some others we can change.
• United States
4 Apr 09
Hi there ajithlal, I myself have been dealing with this a lot. I had a friend that was never answering the phone when I called her so I decided well if you do not care how I am doing than forget you. Than a few days ago she emailed me through myspace and asked why I was not calling her? I thought to myself well you did not care when I was trying to hangout or whatever than forget you. I think she got the point she erased me off my myspace and you know what I am glad. I get sick of her lies and the fact that she never was a good friend anyway. TAke care and happy mylotting to you.
@ajithlal (14563)
• India
13 May 09
Sometimes I feel like I am spoiling some of my friends and doing lots of adjustments.