what do you do when your spouse or loved one goes out of town for somedays-I cry

India
April 4, 2009 1:29pm CST
My fiancee went home for 3 weeks. I am all alone here and am in tears. He is calling up again and again to say that I have a nice time and visit friends and have fun. But I feel tears rolling when I think of enjoying the days without him. Have you ever felt like that. Do you try to engage in activities and keep yourself busy so that you donot miss your spouse or loved ones when they go for tour or holiday.
6 responses
• India
5 Apr 09
I will meet all my friends whom i could not meet because of my busy time with spouse or loved.
@chaselee (240)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
At first I felt lonely but when you get used to it you will find that you will somehow enjoy the freedom. If you think about it, it is necessary to be separated once in a while so as not to depend on each other too much.
• Indonesia
5 Apr 09
If i were you i'm wouldn't make a cry. why ? because we must enjoy this live. there isn't 2nd chance to live again if you die. so, if someone leave you. let them go. because, maybe they are going to do something important
• India
5 Apr 09
Its depends upon situation because if i am faithful to my spouse then it is very boring time for me otherwise it is great time fo rme.
@spalladino (17925)
• United States
4 Apr 09
I know a couple of girls who's fiances are overseas in the military and they miss them terribly but they can't sit around crying...mostly because their guys are going to be away for quite awhile. So, they get out and do things with family and friends and it does help. One of the girls has a baby who just turned one so she brings her baby over to my daughter's house once a week or so and she visits. My daughter's youngest is also one so the babies play...sorta. I know it feels like an eternity but 3 weeks isn't that long. Use the time to do things that you enjoy with people you enjoy being with and the time will pass faster.
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Right at the moment my b/f and I are separated due to work. He is trying to get a transfer to where I am. We try to keep in contact by texting and a call and using Yahoo messanger. I get to see him this afternoon and he will be staying until monday morning when he has to go back to work.The driving distance is only 27 miles but then have to cross the water on a ferry. If he can't get a transfer by mid August I told him to look for a studio apartment for me and him. I try to keep myself busy by doing what I do most of the day.