How to enjoy the life every second when you feel empty and lonely.

@ajithlal (14569)
India
April 5, 2009 2:29am CST
Even with having everyone and everything there are times when we feel very lonely and empty. How to enjoy every second of your life when your life feels empty and lonely?
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• Slovak Republic
5 Apr 09
My dear friend ajithlal..I feel empty and lonely very often..In my opinion "to enjoy the life every second" is just methapor because it is not possible..I can not enjoying my life every second because I am ill sometimes..I have headache and backache too :-( oh I also have a trouble with my tummy..so how can we enjoy our life every second when we feel empty, lonely or ill?? :( :(
@Darkwing (21588)
6 Apr 09
Even when you're ill, my friend, providing you're not seriously ill, you can always wander out into the garden and talk with the birds. I have two particular birds who always come right up to me in the garden. They are a blackbird who nests in the hedge every year, and a robin, who spends a lot of time sitting on my front gate, but always follows me into the garden. I take them food, talk to them, and I feel much better. Try it! There's nothing like the wonderful gift of nature to cheer us. Brightest Blessings.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Sep 11
Wow great idea. I think it is always great to get closer to mother nature as near as possible. I think you are enjoying life. I am studying these great things from you and try to be around birds and waterfall.
@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
25 May 12
Thanks for the reminder.. was feeling a bit lonely and bored today. I think I'll got sit out side with a good book.
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@Darkwing (21588)
6 Apr 09
I'm a great believer in being at one with nature. You're never alone when you take a walk amongst wildlife, and nature's backdrop. I can sit by running water and hear voices in it, as it babbles over the rocks, and falls down the waterfalls. The breeze blowing through the leaves on the trees also sends whispers to me, and with animals, they will sometimes come up quite close, in order to greet you or be inquisitive. I talk to them also, and it makes me feel less lonely. Brightest Blessings my friend.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
7 Jun 09
I will certainly try to spend more time with mother nature as possible. I think I missed lots of good things in my life not being able to spend time with Mother Nature.
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@Darkwing (21588)
12 Jun 09
Yes, nature is a large part of our lives and Earth's settings. If you haven't taken time to be at one with it before, then you will surely benefit from doing so now.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
12 Jun 09
Yes it is really wonderful to get closer with nature. I am feeling fresh after I spend more time with Mother nature.
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@jheLaichie (4439)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
life is so precious and to enjoy it i rather enjoy it with my family and boyfriend/fiance. i also love to hear music when i felt alone and lonely. its nice to hear our favorite musics and relate it with our everyday lives. enjoy by helping others who are in need and just be with those people who are close to you, and have the time of your lives! jhelai
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 May 12
I also life is precious and we should try to enjoy every second of our life.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
5 Feb 13
I think we should let go the past and try to live in the present and must think that future is good and bright in our lives.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
5 Apr 09
Hi, Even when the chips are down,Never Give Up. have Hope & patience.face it Boldly. do whatever U r supposed to Do.Give Ur best Shots.Enjoyment will originate from here. Wait,have patience.keep Trust in Him.Enjoyment stream will follow. =lahiri,Kolkata,India.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
14 Apr 12
I think persistence and Faith are the two beautiful words that can help one going in life.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
19 Nov 12
I also think that faith can do miracles in our lives.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I sure wish I knew the answer to this. I feel like this alot and can never figure out how to change it.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
20 Jun 12
I think one way to enjoy life is to be busy in our lives and do things that we love in our lives.
@Niah1976 (733)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
just pray. because only God can fill the emptiness in your life. and we should not depend our happiness on others. just think of your blessings and be thankful.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 May 12
I also think that God will do the best in our lives . Thank God now I feel happy and peaceful than before in my life.
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
5 Apr 09
we all have things to worry us, things we can not change. u just can't dwell on things like that. if u do it would drive u nuts. try to get busy & get it off your mind.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
19 Sep 10
I also think we have things to worry in our life and has to take time and enjoy our life.
• India
5 Apr 09
this is a question that i have thought 4 many years of my life , and im still searching 4 the answer . i think that happiness comes from inside , 4 me when im alone and sad i try to remember the time when i was with my beloved . i just remember the time when i archived somethings and try being happy . wht abt u , wht do u do . pm me for ur answer too .
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
7 Jun 09
I also think real happiness comes from inside.
• India
13 Mar 13
Thanks for this discussion, just now i responded to a similar discussion by you, there are many ways friend, you watch movie, go out with friends, visit temples, pray, it will help.
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