he said i did not click through his link???!!!!

Malaysia
April 5, 2009 10:33pm CST
here is the story.. someone sent me a link to join this one site..(i didnt know the person) i click through it and register to that site.. i sent him a message to say thank you for sending me the link.. i am 100% sure that i am using his link to join the site..as i dont even know the site before. few days after that he replied my message and said that i did not register through his link.he accused me.. and he start saying bad things about me like im a liar..and not a good person..etc i feel so annoyed and mad about it. i think he just want to make me feel guilty and just want to mess up with me..he seems to made up all the things which is so untrue. what should i do???i didnt do anything wrong..what should i tell him..i cannot just stay quiet..
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7 responses
@jianhong (739)
• Singapore
26 Sep 09
Yup, all the above mention is right. If i will you i will just explain to him. If he still don't believe and say thing that are not nice then I will reply back with something nasty too and I will delete him from my friends list. haha..
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 09
Hi there bloodcakelover, thats why i didn't care when someone send me any LINKS. Have he respond my discussions, yet? or my questions at pickjack? or sign up under my name, if it is not, I found the truth about this person that only interesting to spread the links. Anyway, some internet cafe, who rent a computer and forgot to sign out after using, if the other person using, the last person can spam at the first person friends at the contact list, so may be this person is telling you the truth, because he was at Internet cafe, and forgot to sign out. Happy posting always, oxox'dian from bali island.
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
6 Apr 09
Most sites you sign up for allow you to check who your upline is. Try going into your members' area, and check your account or profile information. You may be able to see who your upline is and maybe also the contact information of your upline in case you want to contact this person. If you are able to check your upline information, you can easily ascertain if you have signed up under that person who first gave you his referral link to join the site. If your upline is indeed him, then show him the proof from your account to end all arguments. If for some reason you have signed up wrongly and he ends up not being your upline, then you can understand why he is unhappy about it. Still, it is your prerogative if you want to sign up under him. If it was your mistake and you have no upline, you can also if you wish try writing to the site's administrators to have this person inserted as your upline.
@thezone (9394)
• Ireland
6 Apr 09
I would not worry about it just tell him to **** off to be honest and not give it another thought.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Well he is wrong to be this way about it. I don't think you owe this person anything - you don't even know them. To be honest if you feel you need to reply, just tell him you followed the link and signed up. If the link he sent to didn't work then it is no fault of yours, maybe he should check what he sent you. How do you know he sent you the link that his was given to sign up. Honestly, if he did that then he's just giving referals to the person that signed HIM up.
@dmrone (746)
• United States
6 Apr 09
It could be a glitch in the website. Maybe if he waits few days you may show up as a referral for him. It may take you having to do something at the website to become his active referral. If this doesn't explain it, just let him fume. It was a simple mistake and we are all human.
@Hanan_x3 (294)
• United States
6 Apr 09
Seriously he's being a jerk about it. Just tell him you signed up. You dont know if the website is messed up or anything, but you did sign up. Theres no way he can hurt you or anything like that. Just say wut u have to say. That u did use the link he gave u and u did sign up. Its not ur problem if it just didnt work for some reason. He cant just yell at you and stuff. He doesnt know who you are and he cant accuse you of such things. Good luck with him.