I love my husband more today than the day I met him

United States
April 6, 2009 10:50am CST
There are times when we don't get along, and most times over stupid things, but the truth is our relationship has changed so much since we met. We have been through so much together, and now that we have a daughter together, we have become even closer. I simply love it when we have days off together to do things as a family, and it just feels right. For quite some time before I got pregnant, and even though I was very happy with him, it felt like something was missing. Now, things seem just right and I can't wait to have more children. He is a great husband and father and I couldn't ask for more. I guess I'm just being stupid when I fuss at him for not doing things exactly the way I do...I'm wrong for that.
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@soulist (2985)
• United States
6 Apr 09
There was an episode of House where a character was Amish, he was talking to one of the doctors said he loved his wife as much as he did the day they were married. The Amish character looked at him and said "shouldn't you love her more?" That really stuck with me. I always said when I fall in love it would just grow and not become stagnate.
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• United States
6 Apr 09
it's so nice to hear a happy love story! I'm starting to feel the same way about my guy. after our first kid i said no more ever. but i'm coming to love him more and more every day and i just told him the other day that i'm changing my mind and would love to have more of his children. it made our relationship grow so much deeper. we recently spent about a week and a half away from each other and it really opened my eyes to how important he is to my everyday life and how much i truly love him.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
I'm glad you feel that way towards your husband. In today's world where relationship comes and go and breaking up easily seems normal, it is good to know that there are couples that can pass through the hardship together with a smile on their faces and with love. I'm not married yet but hopefully one day soon. I really love my partner and I'm sure he feels the same way too. I hope we can be as tough as you are and I will take care of my feelings for him for it to continue grow.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
6 Apr 09
My fiance and I are deeply in love too. We can't wait to be married, and while sometimes we clash and get angry, we know that we can get through it, and we have. He's always a good person to me, even though i've tested him. We're learning together, and the pastor who is to marry us has really helped even though he's only been counseling us for a short time. Glad your equally as happy.
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@larish (2191)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
thanks for sharing. Wish that every couple in the world will have to say that " I love my spouse more today that the day I met him/her". I do admire you for being on that situation.
@frtwome (239)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I too feel the same way, I love my husband very much. We have been married for over 32 years, seems hard to believe sometimes. We have went through a lot of rough times, financially and hurtful times. Two married people are NEVER going to agree with each everytime, it just don't happen that way. And he can't do things exactly the way that you do them, he is his own person. That's when compromise comes into play. Whenever we disagree on something, we call it a discussion, never an argument. Good luck.. Marriage is a wonderful thing. Stay happy
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
7 Apr 09
it is very good. I think time together has given you much opportunity to love him. Let it blossom.
• United States
6 Apr 09
I have been married for 36 years and there are times that I still fuss at my husband. As you say it is little things. But my husband just stays by me and I love him more than the day I met and married him. He is a great man.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
7 Apr 09
my hubby and i have been married for 21 years and i have to admit, i am the same way you are. we are very much in love and are very happy. sure, we have had our ups and downs but at least we have each other.
@sandymay48 (2030)
• Canada
6 Apr 09
Hi neisygirl...I too love my husband more as time goes on. He is my best friend and soul mate. We too have endured much together including life altering experiences for me. He has always been by my side and I have no doubt he will continue to be. I know what you mean about being frustrated when they do things and they arent the way we do them. I always try just to appreciate the fact that he tried to do it and realize that everybody does things differently and who says my way is right anyways. If your hubby is a good hubby, great father, respectful, non cheater, understanding and thoughtful, let the little things be. You cant ask for anything more. Nothing too human beings are the same, and none of us are perfect.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
7 Apr 09
Hi you are lucky to have nice husband and you enjoy life with him.as you said you have daughter with him and now you get more closer than before.what is your secrect to be good relation each other ?if you don't mind ,share more with us,thanks.
• Singapore
6 Apr 09
you know what i actually not intend and not ready to have any child yet, but yesterday i keep imaging if i got a daughter how will it be ? my husband use to be very bad to be when we just a couple,and we argue a lot of time and almost break , but some how i told him if you don't change your attitude and temper i decided to live you, end up i work 3 job just to avoid seeing each other,because we staying together. after i worked for 6month i realist he change .i quit 2 of my job and i realist we no more argue like last time,but time to time we still argue but i think is normal for both couple. i married him for 2 year we know each other 6 year . all the while he don't like child ,but sometime ago i saw he keep looking at others baby .and till now too ..
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
6 Apr 09
That is very sweet!!! Children completes a family.. I have been with my husband for 13 years, we have been married for 6 years and have 2 sons together... I have always been very close with my husband but once kids came into the mix Our family became complete. It definitely brought my husband and I closer together.. I know exactly what you mean. We all fight over stupid things but a relationship with out fighting is boring.LOL