What should i do when my bf dont want to stay with me?

@emma1987 (107)
China
April 7, 2009 10:22pm CST
If your bf dont want meet you,dont want to stay with u,what will you do? How could make him come back ?
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@urbandekay (18312)
8 Apr 09
You should apologise sincerely for giving him reason to doubt you, then wait, without contacting him. all the best urban
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
I think my mind is not health anymore,I felt very bad in the night .and then,i will call him. I cant control myself now .I cant keep quiet to wait him.
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@urbandekay (18312)
8 Apr 09
Listen, you are not the only one to have felt like this and though you cannot imagine this to be true, know that All will be well, all manner of things will be well. Try to sit quietly, sink deep within yourself and try and rally what you are. Tell yourself that all will be well. all the best urban
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
I live along.I feel longly very much.
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@Aurone (4758)
• United States
8 Apr 09
If he doesn't want to be with you, I would suggest getting another boyfriend rather than trying to make that one come back.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
But i just love him only.
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@PrarieStyle (2495)
• United States
8 Apr 09
Sorry but you can't "make" him come back. Just try to forget about him and move on. If you act as if you are not interested anymore he might come back on his own. If you beg and cry, it will just turn him off and push him farther away. No one likes someone who is needy and clingy. Act confident, at least you keep your self respect. There are lots more out in the world, men are very attracted to women who are self assured and confident.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
I have lost my self-respect yet. I just cant convince that why did he so cold? Fore years relationship,did he have no missing about it?
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@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 09
If he refuse to stay, then you should let him go. If you force him, he might hate you for that. You should also understand why he do that. You should find out whether he still love you.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
He dont give any chance to find out whether he love me .
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@zenki08 (700)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
Well Emma I am sorry for your situation. But have you analyzed the situation on why this has happened? Why don't you try talking to your bf and ask him the real situation. If things don't work out in your favor don't bother yourself and put yourself in agony. Things happen for a reason. Just have faith.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
In the past weeks ,my bf misunderstanded me he thougt i have something with my good male friend,and then he ask me to explain it .I had explained it ,but he dont trust me.so i feeel so despair,i want to kill myself. I cant convince that why he dont trust me ,we are 4 years relationship? so I call him everyday,but he dont answer the phone.He want to stop our relationship. And last week in my begging he promise we could be the relationship together .But he still dont want to meet me,he hate me to find him very much.I told him i want to move to a house which near to him,but he dont happy. yesterday ,he said he hate me very much. I feel that i am no worth in his mind mow. we have argued 4weeks . what should i do?
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• India
8 Apr 09
Well if thats the case, i ll let him go. I ll not try to get him back. Wat's the point of it all when the person you love doesn't love you? Life does go on no matter how much you feel it cant....
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
8 Apr 09
I am sorry if you are going thru a tough time. Thing is, there is absolutely nothing you can do to make someone stay or come back if they want to leave. It is their choice.
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@gicolet (1704)
• United States
8 Apr 09
If a guy don't want to stay with me then that only means one thing - he doesn't feel the same way I do for him. It will for sure hurt but it's best to just let him go. If he comes back then I'll be happy but if he doesn't then it's not meant to be. We need to be open about imperfections on relationships. It's one key to learn to move on with our life and forget. There are other fishes in the ocean and a lot of frogs ready to be kissed. You just need to find your good luck.
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• United States
8 Apr 09
If your bf doesn't want to stay with you there is nothing you can do to make him stay or bring him back to you. If it was me I would go on with my life. Find another boyfriend. If you are confused why he doesn't want to stay with you I might ask to meet with him. In a public place. That way you at least know what the reason he didn't want to stay with you any longer.
@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
He said he is busy ,he dont have time to stay with me .He said i am boring.
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@emma1987 (107)
• China
8 Apr 09
He said he hate me .
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@sid556 (31005)
• United States
8 Apr 09
You deserve a boyfriend that does not find you boring and that loves you rather than hates you. I really think you can do better than this guy. You may not think so now because you think he is the best and you love him. move on. Someday you will look back and be grateful that you got rid of this guy.
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• India
8 Apr 09
Just ask why he not want to live with you if issue is serious then try to resolve the issue otherwise don't think much about this problem.