Have you ever had a relationship with the one you don't love?

Philippines
April 9, 2009 4:00pm CST
I had a relationship right now with the person I don't really love, we do all the things that couples do and enjoy, but honestly I want to stop this. I don't want to keep on regretting each day that I'm with him. I need help.
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
9 Apr 09
Sometimes in life we end up being in a partnership that is just one sided. It has happened to me a time or two but not really a whole lot. You must realize that you can't continue with this for too long. Someone is going to end up getting hurt. You should tell the truth to your friend and then move on. That person deserves to know how you feel so that they can also move on and find someone that really will care for them and reciprocate their feelings.
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
9 Apr 09
Couldn't have said it better.
@txgrl21 (819)
• United States
9 Apr 09
You should definately let him know how you feel, if you dont he might be falling in love with you or already in love and you will break his heart when he finds out you dont feel the same way. He will be happier with someone who feels the same way he does and youre also just hurting yourself. So tell him as soon as possible, it's never too late!
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• United States
9 Apr 09
I have been with a few guys that I thought i really cared about but it ended up that I didn't care about them as much as i did atleast not as a boyfriend.
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
It is really hard to be someone that you don't love. You are in his side even you don't like him. You are always with him like with the other couples do. You don't like what you are doing now. Why don't break up with him? I have experienced this before. We only have a relationship because i loss in the bet that we had. I will be his girlfriend if i loss in the game and that's what happened to me. It's hard that he is always around me when actually i don't want him to be there. That's my fault. I should have not said yes to him. I did that because I have a crush on him but I realized that it is only crush not love. Love is different from crush. Love must be present if you are having relationship with someone. I really regret what happened to me and I wish that I did not do it. Why did you have a relationship with him if you don't like him? He will be hurt if he will know your true feelings with him. Me, i broke up with him because I know that this is not right and I will only hurt his feelings. It is hard to pretend that you love him even though deep inside you feel nothing for him. Why did give him a yes when actually it is a no?Before doing something think about it many times. If you are going to break up with him make sure that you really don't have any feelings for him because you might regret this. Do you really love him? It's up to you, you will be the one to decide on what will you do in this situation. And one advice my friend, just be true to yourself. You will know the answer deep in your heart.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
9 Apr 09
I have never had a relationship with somebody that I don't like. I don't think you would feel good for doing that because if you don't like him, how can you express your real feeling? I would suggest you to talk to him and see what happens.
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
I guess you have to honestly answer the question "why are you with this guy?" Whatever answer you came up with ---just live by it.