The other girl/woman.

Yes, but it was an honest mistake on my part because the guy claimed that he's single and unattached. The moment I found it out that he's married and has two kids, I immediately avoided him. I don't like being part of complicated situations.

Yes I have. When I was younger, I thought it was cool. Until it was done to me! Now I know how it feels and wouldnt want to ever feel like that again. As I had my daughters I started to look at things differently. I would never want my girls to go thru that. The situation was that I was 16, he was 22. I thought being with an older man was the bomb. I ended up going over to the other girls house because he lived with her. She wasnt home. We were intimate. I left my ID between the mattresses. She used to call me all the time and tell me how he was her man etc. So I told her if he is so much your man, check between your mattresses and tell me why I was with your man, in your house, in your bed? Eventually I ended up pregnant with a premature daughter and I moved into my own apartment. He came with. It ended up that he would make me stay in the house, couldnt talk to my family or friends. Most importantly he beat me every day. Come to find out the reason she had broken up with him was because he beat her so bad that she went off to a battered womens shelter. Karma is a Bi**h! What goes around comes around. In the end her and I talked and we both have apologized. Are children are adults now. THis happened about 20 years ago. He is still terrorizing younger women. dl

I honestly can't say that I have been the other woman. I couldn't be with someone who is dating someone else. I think that is wrong, and I would always wonder if he is doing it to me.

why do you have to refuse to do so?i mean why you are afraid of to make friends with girls?the world consist of man and woman, you bump into man otherwise woman. don't be so nervouse, just do what you want to do.lol.