Flirty or Sl*tty?

@laydee (12814)
Philippines
April 13, 2009 3:45am CST
What's the boundary or limit where you'd say the person is just flirty? When do you say the person is sl*tty? I have problems distinguishing the two because I'm quite a conservative type of a girl and any advances on the male counterpart doesn't look nor feel comfortable to me.
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
13 Apr 09
There is a fine line between being flirty or Sl**ty. A woman can flirt with class. Being a Sl*t is when you leave nothing to the imagination and allow yourself to be used for pleasure not love. Usually you can tell the difference. When you flirt, you are respected. When you are being sl*tty you arent respected. The person knows he/she can get away with doing or saying things others wouldnt allow when just flirting. I have daughters and thats one of the things I make very clear when they were growing up. As my dad says " WHY BUY THE COW IF YOU'RE GIVING THE MILK FOR FREE?" It is sooo true. dl
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
14 Apr 09
Why buy the cow if you are giving the milk for free?? What exactly this has to do with the topic of this discussion?
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
You are right dloveli, I think it's about respect. The advise of your dad is so true, I think any should know that. Hmm.. Sanunanu, she was referring to what her dad advised them when they were growing.
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
14 Apr 09
In last discussion you have started, I had advised you to be yourself and you don't need to change yourself to get someone in your life. You need to be a little bold to start a chat with a boy or two, that is all it takes to be a gf of a "dumb" bf. As for the discussion, there is a big difference between flirty and s****y woman. For example: On asking, "Want to see something" Sl*tty Response: "Where in your bedroom or in my bedroom?" Flirty Response: "What do you have in your showcase boy to show me?", with a little hand movement towards his stomach! This is the difference between these two woman!
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@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
5 Aug 09
To me, flirting is just that, flirting...your just showing someone some friendly attention...nothing serious. Sl*tty behavior is when your actually going way beyond friendly. Giving a guy a hug or a pat on the backside is flirting, sticking your tongue down his throat or groping is not flirting. I guess to each person the line is different but that's where I draw it. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]