Daydreamer2: what will you do when you fall for someone? does it have a choice?

Philippines
April 14, 2009 12:45am CST
i have a crush in my school and i try to communicate with him in the email but he doesn't want to entertain any of them. i was so lonely every time i see his face on his email account in friendster it keeps on reminding me how much hurt it causes me whenever he snobs at me. it was really very frustrating because when i see him i'm hurt when i don't i miss him, its really been very hurtful as if i cannot escape from it, i feel so haunted with lies can you tell me what will i do to forget him?
3 responses
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
I was in that kind of situation way back in college. When I get a crush on a guy, I try to befriend him. If he returns the friendship, that's almost a good sign. But if he don't, well, I'll just admire him from afar. Though it will lessen the admiration I feel because of the fact that he's not what I think he is. Honestly you can never forget someone you have fallen for. I think the best thing to do is to readily accept the fact that he is not meant for you and you need to learn to admire him from afar. Pain is included in the process but you'll get used to it. Try to find some other things to do. In the process you'll just wake up one day, the feeling is gone.
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
nice one thanks! i will soon accept this fact.
14 Apr 09
Hi Daydreamer2, Get rid of his e-mail account for a start, we have all been there at one time or another, all part of growing up but you will find some you like and he would like back too, just forget about him, write his name on a piece of paper crumple it up and throw it, that is the best way. Tamara
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• Malaysia
14 Apr 09
He is not a gentleman at all. Don't bother with this kind of snob. There are still many people out there who are more than willing to allow your love to flourish. Go out more an socialize and you'll soon forget about this guy. It is not worth wasting your time when he doesn't response to your good intentions.