Martyrdom to your love one, up to what extent?
April 14, 2009 3:02am CST
I do believe in true love and being a prisoner of it, but up to what extent? I remember a friend of mine way back in college, we met her as a transferee, we got closer to her when she got hospitalized because she then committed suicide because of her long time boyfriend. She changed school at first just to get over it, but after knowing the guy has a new one, all the while she thought she can make it but she was wrong. Knowing it push her to her limits. After some months of recovering, i heard that the guy became her friend again, but to her...it is not just mere friendship but still a special feeling or love. I also sometime accompanied her going to the guys place unknowingly only to find out later that she would just deliver some food stuff for the guy. I thought then, lucky is this guy but he just can't be move by those move by my friend anymore. My friend suffers in yrs, lucky she found friends like us who helped her. Now, she is a happy mom and a wife. Up to when a girl and guy will try to win their love one's heart for you? For me, i don't really know...
14 Apr 09
I am a martyr when I am falling and being in love. Only when my limits are pushed..only then do I back out because I realize how it is affecting me. It also depends on when I wake up and how deeply in love I am with that particular person. I know that I have the capacity to stop the wounds that I am inflicting on me, but I just don't know when and how to. hahaha! hope you understand what I just said. Happy mylotting!
14 Apr 09
I believe in giving your 100% to the one you love. But by this I don't mean giving up our self-respect as well. I personally think it depends on not only on how much I love him but even on how much he loves me. I mean I will try my best but if I know that here on its just downhill and I m simply making a fool of myself then I will surely backout. One thing about me whenever there has been a fall out I have cried my eyes out but once all those tears r out and i decide to move on I drop my baggage then and there i dont carry it with me all the way to my next relation.
17 Apr 09
I don't think crying out loud because of the pain you feel is not bad. Many have proven that it is better than keeping it inside. This way, healing can be lighter. Going back again and again to the wrong person is the wrong thing to do! Go and be happy!!! =)