taking ur loved one for granted

India
April 14, 2009 3:22am CST
everyone knows that before someone falls in love, when they are hitting on u, they are so sweet and do all romantic stuff to impress u.. but after knowing that u too are in love with them they take u for granted n dont b the same as when they were trying for u.. they take u for granted.. many of u would've experienced this.. what do u have to say about this?
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@sunita64 (6473)
• India
14 Apr 09
This problem for taking for granted comes in every relationship and however hard you try it cannot be solved. If everyone pledges for himself/herself that he or she will not take anyone for granted the only this situation can improve, I feel all of us at times are guilty of taking others for granted.
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• India
14 Apr 09
I agree that people do start taking each other for granted...its not just a one sided thing. But then again that taking granted comes in everything we do so just single out love???? For eg lets take you bought a mobile you really loved and once u get it you will flaunt it for a a few days or lets say a week and then the craze goes. This is taking for granted is experienced with our siblings or parents as well. Like all relations even love requires WORK and INPUT from both the end...and honestly it shouldn't be like if he/she isnt putting an effort even I won't..try your best, give it your best shot...after all if you truly love that person it will be worth the effort!!! Its easy to get used to something and forget it's importance coz its always there...I know...been there done that!!!
• India
15 Apr 09
men always take women for granted after marriage and even when they know about their problems hardly come up with the appropriate solution. they should understand that women do lotz of compromises even without his knowledge.