Does your girlfriend compared you with others?

United States
April 14, 2009 7:37pm CST
Did you girlfriend ever compared you to her friend's husband, or boyfriend? If she did, that means she unsatisfied with whatever you have now. For instance, she might compare your job with her friend's boyfriend. The assets you have and others etc..... This comparison might spark a conflict in the future relationship. How would you counter this argument and discussion?
5 responses
@mira91 (988)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Well, i am the girlfriend and frankly speaking, i do sometimes compare my bf with other guys...BUT fortunately it stops there...I mean everyone has their own capabilities and even though i admire other people's bf for being better at his job or something doesn't mean i look down on my bf...Who knows, the boys might be thinking the same thing about other people's gf being a lot more prettier, slimmer or s3xier...Maybe the bf might feel abit down that i am comparing, but he'd know that i love him for him AND his capabilities...So who cares if i envy others, when it's him that i want..^_^
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
No, not really. And if she ever compared me before, i guess it has all been positive. Maybe she's already aware that it will upset me that's why she is being careful with it. It's not that i would mind but sometimes it is better to leave the past behind.
@Zaphan (711)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
umh...It makes me upset when my girl does that to me... even now that we are having our child she still compare me with others like his ex. I understand her but we've talked about it and she will try to satisfy herself with me and our future son.. maybe this will take long but patience is a must! we do love each other but I think she's just stack up from her past that's why I will help her ease hatred from the past!
• United States
15 Apr 09
yes she compairs me with every one it so annoying ("cough"im just trying to look cool)("weez"i dont have a girl freand)so ya i know watcha talkin about.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
it is true that comparisons such as this is an uncalled for behaviour. this just shows how little respect the woman has for the other if she is always complaining and comparing the man she is with other's man. they are different in many ways and a man is successful in his own ways as well.,