Would you get jealous if your girlfriend hangout in the club without you?

United States
April 14, 2009 8:51pm CST
Would you feel jealous, if your girlfriend hanging out with friends in the club without your presence. You know, sometimes, you have millions of doubt, and imagination. You won't have security of yourself. Would you be jealous the moment you know she was in the club dancing and drinking? It is man's nature to get jealous if you really care about her.
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• United States
15 Apr 09
Well i dont get jealous if my husband goes out without me. He is always well behaved. i got to clubs & dance without him & he doesnt get mad ever. We are both happily married & very secure in how much we love each other.
• United States
15 Apr 09
great to hear that, and I envy you.
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
wow i envy you...whenever i go with my friends to the club without him it would be an all out war the next day with him., i just dont get men like this,they say they trust us and yet wont show that trust.
@chiyosan (29388)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
i will be jealous and furious if my BF will go to a club and hang out with his buddies and other girls only if he did not let meknow, obviously he is hiding something from me if that is the case. im glad he is not like that and he rarely goes out he he
@yinmm007 (605)
• China
15 Apr 09
yes,that would make me crazy.i am so care about her,worry about whether she is doing something bad for herself .what if others planed to let her too drunk to know nothing,and i am very care about the relationship when we are together.she could only be mine .no way for others,and if she did something unhappy,we had to break up.i just can't tolerate that
@cherriemae (3375)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
hi there clorissa.. i'm a girl, well, some of boys nowadays are open-minded, they dont get jealous that easy when there girlfriend hangout in the club without him...but, there are also boys who are really get jealous, it's there nature, though, some men are not really acting that they are jealous but it's really seen in their moves and the way they talk...if he really trust her girlfriend, no matter where his girlfriend will go, it's fine..happy mylotting
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
15 Apr 09
I don't think it's at all natural to be jealous. I think it's insecurity. My last boyfriend lived 1,400 miles away from me so there was a lot of trust involved because he went places (concerts, etc) without me all the time. If you can't trust in a relationship there's no point in being in one..
@sameroad (3180)
• United States
15 Apr 09
Yeah, i'm not gonna lie... i would get a little jealous. but as long as i trusted her and i would hope that i did if i was with her lol then it would be okay. it's natural to feel jealous when someone you love is out at a club were she could be getting hit on by other men/women and you aren't there. you don't know how shes responding to them but if you have trust then it should be okay.. as long as your girl loves you then theres no reason for her to look else where.. i think it's good if couple can go out by themself with their own friends and do things without the other one getting upset or jealous if they end up at a club or some place like that..