What to do

United States
April 15, 2009 1:09am CST
I have a friend the only time she will do anything Is when she wants to If I want to do something she has something else planned or busy or don't feel good.Is she just putting me off?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36489)
• United States
15 Apr 09
you can never tell about people anymore. i know alot of times i want do things because i feel bad, i think u can get in a rut of staying home all the time. i know i have, alot of times i will go when i feel bad but it usually makes me feel better to get out once i do.
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• United States
17 Apr 09
You feel better yesterday after our get together? I hope you did i enjoyed it alot.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36489)
• United States
17 Apr 09
i enjoyed it alot. wish u hadn't moved off to ky. we could be doind alot of things if u still lived here. the getting together was fun. i didn't have a good day yesterday but i hadn't slept much in 2 nights. getting the groceries in always wears me out but i hope today is going to be a better day than yesterday.
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@clorissa123 (4930)
• United States
21 Apr 09
She just selfish, and not willing to help people at all. You don't have to put up with her like that, she can do the same to her, see how she gonna feel about it.
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• United States
22 Apr 09
thank you for responding,I think she is selfish sometime too.I hate to do people that way myself
@suzzy3 (8365)
21 Apr 09
It does sound a bit one way.I am sure she does not mean it to be that way.The only thing you can do is turn her down a few times and see what happens.If you need her as a friend then be careful but if you feel she is having you on then she probably is.take care.xx
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• United States
21 Apr 09
thank you for your response.I do need her as a friend if I lose that friend I may never find another,Maybe she don't mean to I,hope not.Annie
@cynthiann (18619)
• Jamaica
15 Apr 09
I think that she is putting you off if this happens regularly. You could gently ask her why she is putting you off if she is the lkind of person that would not take offense. I suppose that it depends on how well you know her. Deep in your gut you will know the truth. You will have to decide whether to confront her or not. Sometimes we cannot deal with confrontation - I can't - so I let things slide moist of the time. Have a great day.
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• United States
15 Apr 09
I have known her for along time and I let things slide to it is better than hurting some you care about. thanks for your comment
@riyasam (16578)
• India
15 Apr 09
it might be her nature.maybe she behaves with everyone like that.i think you should give her back in the same coin.let her also feel how one feels hurt ,when she behaves like that.
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• United States
17 Apr 09
Thank you.I think that is a good idea.I will try that.