having a child with no marriage

@lingzi (568)
China
April 16, 2009 2:58am CST
she is one of my friends who intended to have no kid for never. she was optimistic in my mind. but a call from her last night made me surprised.she has pregnancy for two months and did not know how to do.the man is married and it's impossible to divorce for him. my friend said that she was moved my the coming of the kid.she loves him or her . i actually don't know what should i say about that. so difficult.maybe she will be a single mom. best wishes to her.
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@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
16 Apr 09
It's so hard ,but when there was so much love between the 2 of them,they should have planned better than this,now the child will come into this world and cannot see the father full time,,sorry to hear such stories,,
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@lingzi (568)
• China
16 Apr 09
thank you. i am a lucky one .but i saw so many unlucky person around me.i don't know why. i am also very sorry about that. thank you .
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@xuejie (112)
• China
16 Apr 09
Oh, If she have the courage that become a single mum that not bad in my mind. Maybe she will meet one guy that love her and her child. maybe they will get marriaged. I hope she will have a happy life.
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@maximax8 (29148)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 09
It is great that your friend has come to terms with being pregnant and she is looking forward to her baby being born. She loves her yet to be born baby so that I think is lovely. It is a shame that she had an affair with a married man. I hope that she has a wonderful pregnancy and will have an excellent single mom.
@skysuccess (8881)
• Singapore
17 Apr 09
lingzi, Loesje once quoted that we must always“Be ready to be surprised”, and I am sure you know what that means. Life is never ever what it seems to be, so we are taught not to be self assuming in our thoughts and ways. Although, having a child is certainly a happy news, however, I just cannot speak much for your friend's predicament. It is very unfortunate indeed and cannot help feel deeply for her. But, since she is resolved to keep the baby then I am sure she will be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I am sure that there will always be a way and solution to resolve things. As friends, we really could not do much and will have to pray and hope for the best for her. Cheers.