Love Is Waste Of Time

India
April 16, 2009 10:39am CST
In my opinion being in love with anybody is completely wastage of time. If wet try to understand any person then may be it gives us more and magical result as compared to just loving him with no condition. You should need to understand person. Otherwise popular thing is that "Love Is Blind". You can't expect anything only from love. Love is just bogus activity if you don't have time and courage to living good life. Love lies in friendhship, love lies in relationshp but don't expect love from anybody. Because if you do this then you are in problem. Love is great in itself but giving time to love is just time wasting activity. Give your opinion about how you feel when you are in love.
8 responses
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
hello to you! I would definitely take on the other side because for me love is the most wonderful thing that unites every person in this world. without it, i think we wouldn't somehow have an inner peace within ourselves and we couldn't recognize the people around us... It is what you give or show to the people. Aside from that, it serves as a foundation in any type of relationships. Moreover, through this you would know and as well as feel how to care, how to be patient and on how to give without expecting anything in return.Though somehow sometimes you would really feel pain and I can say that it is part of it already but it would absolutely make you a better person.
• India
17 Apr 09
Everybody in this world thinks that if he was in love then he is feeling unique experience. But true thing is that this case happen with everybody in a life.
@born1989 (177)
• India
16 Apr 09
it's not waste of time dude. may be you are not in love and hence u saying this.love is something which we all need. if you are in love you may tend to work harder & try & achieve those goals,through which you could give your love a pleasant life in the future. it's just not waste of time.
• India
17 Apr 09
In past I am in love but now when I am boken up with them, then I think just that I waste my time at all. There is no output of this thing in my life.
@rmuxagirl (7562)
• United States
16 Apr 09
I dont think love is a waste of time. I think love helps motivate you to achieve your goals and it gives you the feeling of being able to accomplish everything you set your mind to. I live a good life, but at the same time I am in love and am loved by someone and it just adds to it.
• India
21 Apr 09
Love not motivate it just waste our time and try to divert our attention from our day to day life. and also it diverts from out normal routine of life.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
love was never blind, it sees but it doesn't mind. i don't think that loving somebody is a waste of time because when loving sombody, it requires sacrifices and that's what our parents are showing to us. i think you're in a situation that you fell for someone in the past and it happens that she gave you so much to remember that it tears you up. i would say that making ones life miserable just because of having negative thoughts is a waste of time.
@Hedwig (285)
• China
30 Apr 09
Well, when I was in high school , I seemed to be in love with a boy.Or shall I call it love? I'm not sure. I didn't even know him, but he just gave a familiar feeling as if we were old friends at the first glance. Everyday we met on the school bus , I preferred to sit behind him and look at him during the journey.As long as he was in my sight, I felt steady and sure. I wished that moment could keep still so I could watch him forever. Seeing him seemed to be the most important thing in my life and the only thing that could make me happy. Though I havent seen him after graduation for about three years, I can still remember the specific feeling whenever I recall him.But is it love? or just puppy love? I dont know.
@laxmi123 (949)
• India
30 Apr 09
i agree with you.it's absolutely correct.but some people thinking is love is the greatest thing about our life.it's not correct.it's a time wast.i don't understand why do people fell in love.any how have a nice day.happy my lotting
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
it is not a waste of time, love can motivates you and mold you into something else. no matter how heartbroken you maybe, it doesn't mean that love already wasted your time, all you to do was to stand up and try to start again. maybe not to the same person again atleast take that as a challenge to yourself for you to grow and to learn life in the aspect of love. But, love needs much of that time, it depends upon you whether you'll gonna take much of time looking for love or making yourself tied in waiting for love, just go with the flow and live everyday as if it is not you who are running towards love, but let love chase you.
@steelkhan (179)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
27 Apr 09
Yes and no i both agree and disagree with you on your opinion being in love with anybody is waste of time. 1) YES, because when you love someone who is not compatible with you or does not love you in return or is not faithful to you. 2) NO, because when you love someone who is compatible with you, really loves you and is faithful to you, if this happens you will feel life is very short for this kind of relation.