Survey:which one would you choose ?love or money

China
April 16, 2009 9:37pm CST
If there is one people you don't love,but he will give the rich life.will you choose him and married ?And we don't need sham answer,Just say as your true idea.I just wanna to survey,I will be very appreciate of you,if you say the truth.and I will add rate of your comment.Now I'm the first,I think I will choose him,because marriage is based on matter.No car,no house,you can't married obviously.
1 person likes this
12 responses
@nurseia (40)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I would choose love over money anyday. Money comes and goes, but true love lasts forever.
1 person likes this
@agv0419 (3029)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
I agree with them I'm going to choice love also. Although money can give you a comfortable life but it doesn't give you happiness. If you going marry someone choose the one you love not after the money. Money can destroy relationship, so I think you can work together as a couple through richer or poorer to survive the challenges in your life.
1 person likes this
• Costa Rica
17 Apr 09
this is to deep.. 'cause if you don't have any money but have love at first you'll be fine but as time pass and you still don't have any money the things complicate and starts to de hard manteining the relation. but if you have a lot of money and no love, its hard as well 'cause nothing you can buy will fill the emptyness that the lack of love provides, so its hard to choose, if you marrie this person and you cold take half of his money when the things get to unbearable. i bet many will choose the money cause no matter how many reason you could give most people are greedy. But i choose love cause makes me fill good even when i'm not that good and this is what it matter to me.
1 person likes this
@dreamdua (48)
• India
17 Apr 09
with no second thought i will definitely choose love because if love each other it means we understand each other so with that understanding we will make money together by working hard.ok you told that YOU CHOOSE MONEY RIGHT, BUT DEAR TELL ME ONE THING THAT IF IN FUTURE THE PARTNER YOU CHOOSE,HE/SHE LOSTS ALL MONEY DUE TO SOME LOSS OR ANY REASON THEN WHAT WILL YOU DO .WILL YOU LEAVE HER BECAUSE NOW YOUR PARTNER DON'T HAVE MONEY AND LOVE YOU ALREADY DON'T HAVE. money is not everything in life but we require money for everything.BUT I NEVER GIVE MONEY A FIRST PRESENSE IN LIFE
@smartjack (521)
• India
17 Apr 09
i would choose love instead of money because love is a very important part of human being, money comes and goes but the love ones lost hurts a lot.
1 person likes this
@mzj033y (185)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I would choose love over money and I'm from a lower class income family. Money can never buy happiness for me. It's just a thing, an object. I would not live happily knowing that he doesn't love me. My aim in life is to live happily and be a happy person. I want my other half to love me as well. I don't really care wheather he has money or not.
1 person likes this
@Shant23 (195)
17 Apr 09
Love everytime as whats the point in having lots of money but not being happy. I think all those who choose money would live to regret there decision.
1 person likes this
@ellovire (409)
17 Apr 09
LOVE for me. Let me share my story, my husband has three brothers and all of them are successul with their own businesses. They are all rich and raking in money. While my husband is just a humble employee of a company. Though he is holding one of the top positions in the company,the pay is not that all big. Well, maybe just enough to feed us and no room for luxury, unlike his brothers who can buy eveything they want and go to places they like. But you know what? His brothers envy us. They may have all the money in the world but they are also having problems in their married life. One of them might file a divorce anytime soon and the other one has a nagging and dominant wife. While the other one has no partner in life at all. They claim they are not happy with their love/married life. And they envy us for they can see in us what a happily married life is all about. We may not have all the money they have, but at the end of the day, me and my husband know deep in our hearts that we love each other and we are lucky to have found one another. We made each other laugh, ease our burdens, and thankful for all the blessings that come our way.
1 person likes this
• India
17 Apr 09
The first question we must ask ourselves is Money the only thing which will give us happiness? Or is there something else in life apart from money? If money is the make all and get all in our life, then you can always choose money. But I firmly believe that money is important to one's life but money is not everything. I can have loads of money by marrying a person whom i don't love, but at the end of day will I be truly happy with myself? Will be happy if I sacrifice my true love for something as small as money? And will I do justice to the gal whom i marry for money? I marry her for money, spoil not only my happiness but her happiness too. I don't give her the true love which she deserves, for no mistake of hers. So for me Money is next to love and i vote for love! Thanks!
1 person likes this
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
In this miserable world of crisis, I think what we need is money rather than love. Love can't survive if you have empty stomach. It's a practical reason indeed! based on what I see to our world chronologically. It saddened us, because to compare with old times before they can survive by living in forest but now everything were gone even forest per se. People are politically minded, rude and selfish so love is gone and the modern times is unlished with this notion.
1 person likes this
• United States
17 Apr 09
I would choose love any day. Money is nice and all, but it's not that big of a deal. I would rather have someone to share every moment of my life with than have money & fake friends to share money with that really dont care about you. Love all the way!
1 person likes this
@Thumper11 (662)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I would pick love. I've been in this situation and although I have struggled... It is hard to be poor, I am much happier to feel true love than to just have the money. Money can't buy you true love or true happiness. I would like to have more money laying around, but I am happy with my choice of love. It has worked out better in the long run. We always have just what we need, sometimes more, sometimes just enough, but we haven't went without, so definitely love.
1 person likes this