Whether yuu prefer Love marriage or arrange marriage.

India
April 17, 2009 5:44pm CST
Hello frinds i want to know that whether arrange marriage is good or the love marriage.According to my opinion love marriage is better and long lasting, with respect to arrange marriage.
4 responses
• India
20 Apr 09
love marriages is that who were once attracted and there is no other way to escape and should have to marry the partner with their opp ones so,,, i prefer arranged marriages it is the one who make the stranger well known.
• India
20 Apr 09
Thanks but you can see that many arranged marriages are sometime leading to divorce conditions.
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
hi, personally i still prefer the love marriage because both the man and the woman agree the they will marry each other because they have a mutual love for each other. arrange marriage as practiced in some countries are not much advisable because most of the time the man and the woman did not love each other, they are only being forced to marry because the parents of both sides agreed to arrange the marriage of their children. as i believe it is a suppression of ones right to choose of whom to love. although there are some cases of successful arrange marriage that is good but i guess it will take much time unlike those that gone through the usual courtship process. be blessed. happy mylotting
• United States
17 Apr 09
I think that an arranged marriage is never a good idea. I know that some cultures live their lives that way, but really, I would not want to have an arranged marriage. How can you spend the rest of your life with someone that is not of your choosing? I would rather know the person, know that there is a connection, and know that I love them. I have been married now for going on 2 years, and we have our ups and downs, but we chose each other. I think that an arranged marriage would actually cause conflict within the relationship. Being forced into marrying someone either you don't know, or know but really don't have any feelings for, could cause resentment and lasting unhappiness. I love my husband with all my heart, and I chose him, he wasn't chosen for me.
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
17 Apr 09
hi, according to me arranged marriage is very much better... 'cause only a few love marriage suceeds all time...most of the love marriage ends in a disaster...our parents know wat to do ...they will choose the better pair fo us..the arranged marriage system in our country is very much elite and its being praised by many western countries... im 19 now and i will marry a girl whom my parents wanna have her as their daughter in law.. happy postings..happy to listen..happy mylotting...