will you marry a man or a girl you met on a trip

China
April 18, 2009 9:31pm CST
You know when we on a trip ,we do have chance to meet a lots of people.We make friends with them,and some of them may be your best friends One day if one of them ask you to be gf/bf.What will you do? REJECT it because you don't know this person very well,or you take it since you never mind which way you get know this person. If you take it ,will you willing to marry her/him later.
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@maximax8 (28249)
• United Kingdom
19 Apr 09
I was traveling on a train in Australia, it was a 36 hours journey. In the club loco car I met a lovely man and we began chatting. We met up again the next day and sat together on the train. He was traveling with a few friends that invited me to stay. They put me into their spare room. The man and I began dating one another and I ended up spending weeks there in Brisbane. I did pop back down to Sydney and then I came back to Brisbane. We spend Christmas and New Year together in Cairns. Then I flew on the next leg of my around the world trip to Darwin. The man and I phoned each other often, the cost of the phone calls were high! I came home after just over one year of traveling and the man saved up to come over to my home country. He came over, we got engaged and married a few months later. We had a baby son who is now 14 years old. Sadly after six years the man and I got divorced.
• China
20 Apr 09
My husband and i have slmost same story.We married and have a 2-month old girl. I am not sure we will divorce or not later.What i am sure is we are happy now.
@lazeebee (5468)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 09
Hi Annie, wow! I'm usually very cautious about people I meet on trips and tours - suspicious mind of mine. Being friends, it's fine, but something on a more serious nature, I would hesitate. I would just let the friendship develop and see how far it goes!
• China
20 Apr 09
Some people do like you.They just let things go naturally. But if naturally goes to that part,i mean you do fall in love with someone you met on the trip.Will you take it.
@marguicha (94638)
• Chile
19 Apr 09
It doesn´t matter where you meet the person but it would be advisable to know the other before commiting yourself for something as important as marriage. Even now, with so many couples that get divorces, I think it´s wise to marry thinking that it will last forever.
• China
20 Apr 09
Agree with you. Know his/her personlity is more important than anyother things. And another considerable affect is "does this person mearch to you or not? "
@20062010 (34)
• China
19 Apr 09
atually,i think we should be careful in making a choice of marrying a girl or a man that we met on a trip. As to me, if both of us can speak the same language and i think he has a good cherateristic as well as we can make a happy living together , i will marry him.
@fordgtdeb (131)
• Australia
19 Apr 09
well if i was to go on a trip and if i was single it would depend on what country i was going too if it was a english speaking country yes i would but if it was a non english country then no as i would not believe what they have to say as thy could say anything to get to where i live