i lost my wedding ring!

Philippines
April 18, 2009 10:48pm CST
i lost my wedding ring!it was really upsetting that it happenened. i just didnt know its whereabouts. i hate it when im forgetting things, especially now that it's my wedding ring, of all things! my husband claims that i really planned to lose it. aside form the fact that im upset im also hurt because i didn't mean to lose it. now he's not talking to me. he's talking about the importance of keeping it, because it's a wedding ring. though im not guilty of his charges, im guilty of having always forgetting things. now im not eating my lunch i just exhaust my feelings here in my lot.
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17 responses
• United States
19 Apr 09
Hopefully you can find it. I'm forgetful too especially when I'm constantly being distracted. I only take my rings off to clean them and that's it. My hubby lost his a few years ago, then found it. Then lost it a yr or so later, he left them in his work pants and the uniform cleaner must of gotten it or so he tells me & of course once he guessed what happened it was too late to make a claim with his work or uniform company. He's also since lost his replacment. I'm trying to convince him to just tattoo it on his finger he won't be able to loose that one
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
i still didn't find it. maybe a week or so. the house is a mess since we only arrived from vacation. i told him that we would just buy a new pair. he said nothing could replace the original ring. we just didn't talk right now
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
That's a pretty bad thing for a married person to lost something very precious. But what can you do if it was lost, maybe you can explain well to your partner why you lost it and you too must talk seriously about it. I don't think the hatred of your spouse will last for that small reason. You can buy another one, because it is only a material thing, though very precious and sacred for both of you. Why find a replacement instead.
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• Philippines
29 Mar 10
yes that's what we're planning.
• India
20 Apr 09
First, of all it is not good thing at all. It is also misfortune to lost wedding ring. You should be careful towards your personal thing in future.
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• Philippines
21 Apr 09
i tried to be careful but im fond of forgetting things and misplacing them. it was my sickness long before. i can't help it. usually my friends get angry with me because of that. i feel so stupid everytime that happens. anyways my husband talked to me now.
@ashwlzhq (47)
• China
20 Apr 09
I sorry to hear that.Don't cry over the spilt milk.Now it is lost,it is useless to be upset.I think what you should do is to think about how to make up for it.Do you agree with me? Maybe you will find it someday,and it will become a good memory.Wish you happy.And happy mylotting!
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
wah! pagtsure biang uy!!! is it really lost??? how come??? still LQ with nold??? wah wah wah oh why?!
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• Philippines
19 Apr 09
i know how it feel's we got married last february12,2009 and unfortunately my husband lost he's wedding ring after a week!I got angry and up set even though he explained that he did not intend to lost it!my heart broke into pieces.what he do is we go back to the shop where we buy our ring and buy a new one.i forgive him i know he love me that much!that is one of the reason why he marry me!so cheer up if you can't find it try to have a heart to heart talked with your husband.he'll understand
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@berrys (864)
• Singapore
19 Apr 09
You can't be mad at your husband... his just upset that you lost it. the wedding ring is like a symbol of your commitment to him. why don't you suggest a different badge of honor to wear his love proudly like a hickey? or take a marker pen and playfully draw another on your finger and a matching on his. don't forget to give him a really nice watch too! till you find your ring that is. try remembering when was the last place you saw it on your hand, and trace your steps from there. it should be somewhere along those lines. good luck! and don't beat your self up too much. this things do happened.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 09
Where do you think you lost it? i hope you didn't loose it in the bathroom.,chances is that you might find it out at all.i lost mine for a month and after buying a new one i saw it under my bed stuck in between woods. he should have understand your situation as being forgetfull. and make a arrangement on where the ring should be placed when taking a bath. so, that it would lessen the blame game.
@maezee (42003)
• United States
19 Apr 09
Hopefully it will show up somewhere and isn't permanently lost. Are you sure you didn't just MISPLACE it? It's unfair for your husband to be upset with you, though. It's not really your fault - people misplace and lose things all the time. It shouldn't be a sign of disrespect or anything like that. I hope it turns up for you!
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
19 Apr 09
My friend lost her wedding ring when she travelled to Thailand with her family. Her wedding ring was rather loose, and she didn't often wear it, she treasured it and would only wear it on occassions. She dived in a beach in Thailand and finally knew she had lost it after she went back to the hotel that night. Her husband said the same as your hubby, but I don't think your hubby or hubby of my friend means it, they both are very sad too. All my friend can do is to buy new pairs of rings, it still a memorable ring, as they always remember the absent-minded wife lost the ring and they bought new rings for this memorable event. ^.^
@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
19 Apr 09
I am so sorry to hear you lost your wedding ring! Hopefully you just misplaced it and find it soon. Have you checked everywhere possible? I'm assuming you have. I'm sure it'll show up when you're least expecting it to. It has to, right? I hope your husband doesen't stay upset for long. That definitely isn't fair to you, especially because this was an honest accident. I don't blame you, I would be very upset about this too! Good luck and don't give up - keep searching!!
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@ahslack (484)
• Singapore
19 Apr 09
It is sad to hear that you have lost an important item of your marriage which is the wedding ring.I understand that you accidently lost your wedding ring and not intentionally.Maybe you can try to think back where you went and try to go back there and try to find.It's normal for your husband to feel angry but let him cool down and then try to talk to him again.You should try to eat a little and hope that you will be able to find your wedding ring.Good luck with your search.
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@pink_lady (361)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
hi flagella, Just calm down and take it easy, you can find it... My husband usually dont wear our wedding ring because of his work, it might damage the ring and worse it might lost. He is an Aircraft NDT Inspector and they usually check airplanes and test chemicals all the time, so It is advisable not to wear the ring, it is kept in our room. and when we go out or dine out together he wears it. Just think harder where you put it.
• Malaysia
19 Apr 09
Hi flagella I understand how you fell about it. My uncle lost his when we went to the waterfall oneday. His wife was at first angry with him but then she bought him a new one later. You husband should not pur petrol on a burning fire. Try recalling it where you might have placed it. Will pray for you to get back your ring. Dont worry cheer up Thanusha
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
That sad, really! Wedding rings holds very sentimental value to both of you that maybe the reason why your husband is upset. Think clearly, did you lost it inside your house or outside? There is a great chance you lost it inside your house. When do you usually take the ring off? Shower? Laundry? Washing dishes? By thinking about your normal routine, you can start searching from there. I hope you find it...
• India
19 Apr 09
dont worried about it.. this also good... that is ur fate...
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
19 Apr 09
Well, yea, you've got to let the guy be angry there, it's a wedding ring after all...I know, like you, i tend to forget things, even if it's something i really really don't want to forget and is of the utmost importance to me. Usually for things like this, i'd keep it in one place called the important box and well all the very important things go in thre...And if we just procastinate less, maybe the importants things that we treasure will get lost less often...^_^ I'm sure your hubby will find it in him to forgive you, after all you're much more important than a ring right? =] Take care...