if you can choose, would you still choose to be born in this world again?

@Canteen (595)
China
April 21, 2009 6:23am CST
my answer is definitely no. if i can choose, i would never choose to be born in this world. my parents got divorced when i was very young, and i don't ever have a happy life. death is so much easier than life. instead of choosing the easier way, i have to experience the tough life. because my grandma raised me up in such hard way, i don't want her hard effort gone down the drain. and my grandma, the one loves me the most in this world, have Alzheimers now, she can't recognise me any more. how i wish i could be her side to take care of her, but i have to finish my university. She've suffered so much in the life before, it's so unfair she got this disease in her old age. she's always kind-hearted, she doesn't deserve this. i'm getting to believe fate. maybe it's just her fate. anyway, i don't wanna be a human being next life. just nothing, so i can feel nothing, no pain no sorrow. if there'a s heaven, i hope that's where my grandma will belong.
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• United States
21 Apr 09
After reading your sad story I feel so sad. I don't want to feel sad for you I want to feel joy for you. Your grandma gave you something many of us don't have. That would be a like filled with a persons love. Your grandma gave you unconditional love in her life. She is suffering right now in your eyes. How do you know she is not still enjoying what little life she has left. Good luck to you in the future. No,I would not want to be born in the miserable world called earth.
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@Canteen (595)
• China
18 May 09
no, i'm sure she's very unhappy everyday. she always abuses my dad and me if i'm home. and she always wants to leave home, she said that's not her house. and my stepmother doesn't like her, she is not good to my grandma.
• China
22 Apr 09
Ha,canteen,cheer up.now you are still in life,you have to find something let your life fulfill.Well,we can't choose this life who we are ,but we can choose what we to be.Now you must dwell on the past,face the life,as i think.Everybody in life suffer the sorrow,but maybe you happiness is hiden behind them .
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• Saudi Arabia
21 Apr 09
Im sorry for you Canteen, but I am positive about the rest of your life. Its like night and day...if there is night ..day follows no matter what. Have faith and hope in God and everythgi nwill turn out for the best :) If i was given the chance to choose, I would not say I dont wanna come here again..this world may seem like a bad place soemtimes...but thats not true, most of the peopel in the world are good. There are so many kind people, esp the best part of human nature is that I like strangers who are so kindm they leave me with a smile on my face. So if at all given a channce, I would ask fr a better life BUT in the same world with the same people...maybe richer, smarter, better looking,kind,etc ...but yeah; I am glad and thankful To God that I have been to such a nice place and I'd love to be here again . peace!
@Canteen (595)
• China
18 May 09
thank you for responding. i love your figure of speech, about the day and night. :) maybe i should more focus on those positive side. thank you.
• United States
21 Apr 09
Dude...You should concentrate on those feelings and write a hit song about how tough life is. Anyway, to answer you question, Yes. I would choose to live again. I don't have the happiest life but there are few moments that are worth it. Get a girlfriend..you'll know what I mean. Also, whenever you are feeling sad about your life, try to focus on the upside. You know...look at the glass half full instead of the other way. It always works for me.
• Romania
21 Apr 09
if i can chosse when i want to be born again i want to be born in the futur with 200 years,because i want to see if the people is the same like in our days
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
21 Apr 09
Yes, I would because I tihnk there are lots of interesting things in this world and excitement is everywhere. Life is tough but it is what it is, people needs to experience to gain lessons, I sometimes blame a little bit of being what I am but I tell myself I need to overcome anything that I'm facing. I'm still full of hope and like to keep movingin this journey! I wish you all the best!
@megalia (60)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 09
i think you have to learn about life will not goes smoothly like what u wish. you know, my parents also almost get divorce. even now they're not getting divorce , but they always quarrelled. I'm so stress if im thinking of my life because there is no body stay in my side to raise me up, not like you. and until now i try my best to think positive and learn anything of life and notice that life will not go smoothly and we have to take it as our experience of life. and later when we have a child, don't let them to have a difficult life like us.
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
21 Apr 09
yes,sure. i will ,i don't want die. it is terrible. if choose where i have live , i can choose poor village . i want to do a poor life, i think that will be very happy , i want till land. with the labor i will very happy. i like that life. i wish the gain of my crop. i like that, i am very happy when i gain my crop. and i can exchange some of my crop for some money. then i can use the money buy the things which i want to buy. and play with many friend who are farmers too. so life is very intereing ,i like that life. so as you . happy mylotting...
@daliaj (5689)
• India
21 Apr 09
I am sorry for you dear. Life is always a mixture of good and bad events. We have to accept that. Of course you will have good things happening in your. Then you will want a chance to come to earth again. May god bless you. All the best! I would like to have a second birth if I get a chance and fulfillmy dreams which I couldn't do in this birth.