Do you like girl or boy?

China
April 21, 2009 7:49am CST
I am a chinese man,perhaps you konw the policy in our country,one couple only have one kids to reduce the population,that is to say,in china ,we hanv the birth control policy. Now ,i want to say ,if you only have one child,you hope the kid ie girl or boy,why?
7 responses
@khatyeah (70)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
actually, it really depends on what your wife will give birth to. if she gives birth to a boy, he will carry your family's name but you will be challenged to raise him up, if she gives birth to a girl, you may have a hard time to let her go when the time comes that she will have her own family.
@marguicha (102314)
• Chile
22 Apr 09
When I was pregnant of my first child, I wanted a boy. I think it has to be with cultural ideas. It was a girl. And the second one was also a girl. I have two wonderful daughters and there´s nothing a man could do that they don´t do for me if needed. Plus they understand some things better: most men are basic, no matter how loving.
• United States
22 Apr 09
i would not be able to just have one child, i would have to leave china because i would not only want one child , i guess thats why i have 4 . i cant believe a place would have that law it's just crazy.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
21 Apr 09
I like both the boy and the girl child.It doesn't make any difference for me whether my child is a boy or a girl.They will be my flesh and blood whether it is a boy or girl.But if I am given choice,I will love to have both boy and girl.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi! I am a chinese too.so i fully understand what you meant to discuss this. There is no doubt that even in modern times most of chinese have such a conception as only a boy can be the successor of a family,and some of them have a strong aspiration to have a boy in spite of the birth contrl policy.But in my opinion,there is no difference at all between having a boy and having a girl.
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
What a sad rule is that. But, anyway, i think they really have the point on that. Well, if I really have to choose, though i really don't have anything against boy, i prefer a girl. Gosh, what a hard decision. Actually, any of the two will really do, as long as they are given to me. Because both are gifts from God.
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
21 Apr 09
i hope the kid is boy. becasue the boy full of sunshine and full of energy. i like boy very much. i have a brother who has six year's old he often comes to my home. and i feel he is full of energy. i often play games with him. and he often beat me , i have a bit afraid of his hand he always pinch my leg. if i don't agree with him, he often use him small hand to pinch my leg. and often climb my back hit my head. so happily boy! God bless you.