Whta are the rights of being a GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
April 22, 2009 1:13am CST
For me I have the right to know what goes on his life and somehow I have the right to demand certain things. I don't need to know everything she does and who she does these things with. But I can set boundaries and what is acceptable and not acceptable to me. Have a nice day to all of you!
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@qujing1710 (210)
• China
23 Apr 09
i guess you don't like her,and you just wanna get her. but at the same time ,you must be a good man ,because you look like a cool guy!
@navonly (901)
• India
22 Apr 09
ops!! do you have a slave or a girlfriend? Sorry if its rude. May be thats your point of view.
According to me your right ends, where she denies to accept any of your decision. If both of you are in real love, there wont be any requirement of setting any boundaries. Love makes it happen itself. She'll herself tell you all about what shez doing and with whom. May be she'll even take your permission before meeting to anyone else or before doing anything, but let everything happen itself and not bound her to do so. This will improve your relationship and increase love in between both of you.
If I start bounding her for everything, may be she'll follow all that for some time, but later on she may start opposing it, and all the love in between us will be gone very soon.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi navonly, it's just okay with me, but do really ask her what she has been doing everyday even the problems, cause her problems are my problems too. I like to be around her always, not out of my sight. Anyway thanks for the advice! Well it's just a matter of compromise for both of us everyday. Have a nice day to you!
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