Before marriage love affair...

India
April 22, 2009 5:13am CST
Hi Friends, What will you do if you have a situation like you came to know that your husband had an affair before marriage? how do u react to this?
3 responses
• India
22 Apr 09
I think when you start a relationship you should put the past back and start afresh and see whether he is a sincere person . has he ever treated you badly ordo you feel he is comparing you to his old flame ? . If no then the affair is history. He is in love with you then just tell yourself to forget the past . Never bring up this topic and never doubt him unnecessarily. Dont spoil your married life by looking into the past. if you have to then look back upon the time he has spent with you and judge for yourself whether he is worth your love or not?.If he is still looking out and being unfaithful to you then take action .
• China
22 Apr 09
I'm a man,not a woman. So it may be a little strange for me to follow this discussion. But i think such situation is the same with men. If such thing happened on my partner. i would definitely feel uncomfortable. Maybe I would divorce her,or I can live with her continually, I just don't know. I am a selfish man. Under such conditions, I could react fiercely. You have raised a good question. I think I should reflect upon it well.
@springs (926)
• India
22 Apr 09
Now-a-days affair have become common.They love someone and because of some reasons they won't marry.That's all.What a husband and wife can do with that.They can't change their past life so ,don't let it happen in the present ,leave the partner,this is the only punishment to them.