Who in here can really say they're HAPPY?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
April 27, 2009 9:50am CST
I'm so bombarded right now with left and right issues of how 'sad' and 'lonely' people are, relationships breaking up (and I'm not only talking about myself), family members dying, financial difficulties. Sometimes I just want to scream my head off! I know life can be really tough, but can someone just tell me honestly that they're happy? I need to see some positive outlook in life. I just need air to breathe and for someone to show and prove to me that beyond this pain in my heart, beyond the problems all about, there is some slightest hope of being happy once again. Who among you here could really say you're happy? I beg for some positive things, because I'm about to really lose it.
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11 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
28 Apr 09
*raise hands* I can say that I am happy, inspite of the difficulties we are facing, we are run out of our investment due to down fall in Share market. I lost my job due to recession and only source of money is my part time jobs and online earning, we have almost Rs 100K of debt but still we can say that we are enjoying because this caused us to think as a unite in our family. There were times when everything was going well financially but we had some communication problem with our family members but now since every body is at home, we are now talking each day to get over from this situaion, which gives us a little satisfaction to us!
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• South Africa
27 Apr 09
I'm really happy since last week. My family is coming soon, we bought a house and we both work from home, so we have now lots of time for our little child. We had also a hard time the past years, but now everything was changing, amazing!!!!! I wish you all the best...
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@chigawaga (592)
• Canada
27 Apr 09
i can really say im happy!i love my life,my children,my husband.things in this world may not be perfect but why live life being miserable or depressed about it,i find it much easier to just not woory about lifes stresses and live each day as if it were the last.i used to be very depressed a few yrs ago,and i didnt think id ever be happy,but i learned to just deal with what was goin on and to not woory about the little things,not woorying about thelittle things or other peoples problems dont weigh me down now.i can honestly say i am very very happy!:)
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@cfmedrano (240)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
I really apologize for what's happening to you but I think I should also scream with you. I am not also happy but if I can, I can just imagine sitting on a porch with you in a nice fine weather and just staring at anything, thinking that you just have somebody with you there at that moment. But if you want to chat....oh my, i am a certified chatter and you will really laugh the whole time that you can chat with me. Although I am also having so many difficulties in life like my health, finances, relationships and stuff, I can make them all go away for an hour and be talkative for awhile and laugh our hearts out.
@stanlee81 (381)
• China
28 Apr 09
I am sorry to hear what you have said,and it seems you are in bad weather currently.I've no idea what caused your negative point of view about life. Yes,I agree hummanbeings mood just like the wather--rainy,sunshine,and even thunderstorm.That is the color of our life.If you always happy,could you give happy a definition? I am afraid the answer is no.Only after getting through the unhappy then you could feel the happy with your heart.Everyday and everthing you have experienced should be cherrished and that is the forturn of your life!So,just put yourself together and brave to welcom the challenge.Good luck!
• India
28 Apr 09
be positive, think positive, do negative, and be happy always..... :)
@lady11eve (311)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
hi laydee, im proud to say...IM HAPPY!!im gratefull for the things i have in my life now... i appreciatte my husband and our daughter...and theres another blessing coming soon cause im 7months on the way...im so thankfull and blessed... if you will just focus on the bad side or sad side of things,it will reflect your feelings and it will make you feel bad more...so stop for a while,look at your family look at some great places on the internet,pictures,funny or comedy videos...dont focus on being sad or seeing sad...your a magnificent human being... im not saying everythings perfect on this world,i been into tough times,my husband got separated,i was lost...thought everythings wont get fine...but then when i try to look on my self see what i am doing,my life sucks...but then i look at my daughter and see how she sees things,she got hurt when playing bvut she wont cry instead she will just laugh on it...i was embarrased to my self then...how could make or help my kid my family or frens if i my self couldnt help to smile... the i heard about this book The secret,,,i read it and it enlighten my thoughts,,,its not a religious book...but its really self uplifting,,it helps me see things on the best way...everythings change...you can see the site www.thesecret.tv dont loose hope...hope is just there...hapiness is just there...waiting for you to be appreciatted...look at the mirror smile at your self...see how beautifull you are...
@jellymonty (2352)
28 Apr 09
I am definitely very happy with my life despite my current difficulties. I live my life to the full, thankful for every breath I take and dont take anything for granted. If you desire true happiness, why dont you try asking Jesus to come into your life? He is waiting to help you out an make you happy again. Ever since I invited him into my life, I have a sense of purpose and meaning. I say you only have one life so why live it in misery? Try Jesus today, he wont let you down and he'll be with you every step of the way. Just rely on him and focus on him and your life will rejuvanate again and that happiness you crave for will be available if you trust him and accept him as the Lord and saviour of your life. Happy my lotting and May God bless you and lead you to the path of happiness...
@hxstar (510)
• China
28 Apr 09
Hi,laydee We all know that life is tough and everybody will surf from failures or something like that,so nobody can be always happy.However,if you always think for the good and never lose hope,you will remain happy all the time in some way.Happiness is a kind of feeling,so just tell yourself to be happy and think for the good and you will be happy.I am happy!I love my family members,and I have many good friends,why should I sad? Have a nice day!
• South Africa
28 Apr 09
I am really happy about my life. But I had also a long bad way of life for many years, but since a couple months everything is changing!! I have more than enough money, I have a great family and live in a beautiful country. So I am really happy!!!
@tzaddi (395)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
i think i could say that i'm happy. contented with what i have in my life. i love my family, my friends, i have no foes. even though my family has financial problems. i can still say that i'm happy. but not really really happy.