What to do when your parents are against you love?

@med889 (5958)
April 28, 2009 4:21am CST
I find these situations difficult. Why are some parents against the love of theirs children? Why do they behave as such?
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4 responses
@srganesh (6349)
• India
28 Apr 09
It is because,they think you are too young to take the right decision.And it is true in most events that we are carried away by our heart and our head has nothing to play.If you are confident about your choice,then you have to convince them without hurting.The parents are really worried about their kids future and hence the conflicts.Cheers!
@vivianchen (2648)
• China
28 Apr 09
Hi Med889, I have the same experience like yours. Or i should say i have a more complicated one and more difficulty. My mom don't like the one i love, the one my mom like i don't love. So me and my mom just like a saw, coming back and forth. It drives my crazy when we start talking about this. She thought she is eldder than me, she knew things better than i am. I admited, she might be good at everything. But, about love, i think this is personal feelings, she can't feel the same way i did. I think that's why she is so again my loved.
@sonusd (1548)
• India
28 Apr 09
I think as they are older than us they beleive that they have experienced this world in a much better way than us so that they know so many things in a better way than us and what ever they say we should folow that , so they think that we can not judge what is right and what is wrong so they become obstacle in childrens love but now days some parents are understanding their child and supporting them
• India
28 Apr 09
Well I think the practical harsh truth of life are the reason Parents don't have much confidence in the choices of their children.Frankly they are not to be blame much as my experience tells me that in majority the earlier declaration of love by a Child is nothing but a sense of loving some one or be loved, which got no relevance for future life. So parents tend to give more weightage for the security and future of their Children rather than who they think they love.