for Married People!!!

Philippines
April 29, 2009 9:12am CST
I was just confused? I have seen a lot of people who doesn't wear their wedding ring, especially boys. I don't know whats their reason for they didn't tell me. I just want to know if anyone here do the same thing? I'm not married yet, but if I will sooner, I should always make sure that I do use it everyday. how about you? do you do the same thing? and why?
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22 responses
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
1 May 09
a wedding ring is actually not so important, because the wedding ring as the only complement it. not have married at a wedding ring does not do anything. the most important in marriage is when the legality wedding. wedding what should if there is a wedding ring. whether the marriage will fail if there is no wedding ring. for my wedding ring does not need to. I must be forced if it can not. if it is able to use the wedding ring, wedding will be complete. I have been married, we do not use a wedding ring. my husband is to provide a ring, but as a dowry. the only ring I wear, my husband does not wear a ring.
• Philippines
2 May 09
"a wedding ring is actually not so important" Yes it may be, but look at it, at least it symbolized your love to each other. YES, the most important is your love toward him and vice versa, no one actually make it a deal and I don't as well. Good for those married couple who don't have a ring or let me say WEDDING RING during their marriage cause they don't have to hide something if they don't like such. But how about those married people who actually have a wedding ring and not wear it for any valid reason. Sometimes you see it in their finger (most especially if they where with their wife) and most of the time they don't. How could we explain this thing??? anyways thanks for dropping by and for the response, hope you have a good day. happy mylotting.
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@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
2 May 09
if a husband does not wear a wedding ring when not with his wife, I think it is not a big thing. as wife better ask why not wear a wedding ring. if the answers make sense why a problem. indeed many husbands who do not wear a ring with the goal of the reason that people think has not been married. I do not agree if such a reason. all of that depends on the nature of its people. husband's wedding ring that uses a lot of that also claim to be single. many women are happy if the husband wearing a wedding ring wherever. a wife is such a natural feel. because a husband and wife feel that they are faithful. but whether the correct way? I appreciate men who wear a wedding ring does not tarnish them with their marriage.
@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I am married, but I barely wear my wedding ring. First, I work and I have to clean most of the time, so I don't wear it just in case of lost or damage. Second, my wedding ring has diamond that is too big and it is scare me to wear it at work. Third, I think it is not necessary for me to wear it for everyday use, as long as you feel love with your husband and he does the same way then it is count already. My husband feels the same way and it works out for both of us.
• United States
29 Apr 09
P.S. well, Record to my religion... a Ring doesn't represent anything. So, I believe in our heart and feeling... if you think ring are important in Married life then you should try one and then you will know how it feels. If you ask, it is just an example for Europe style or American Style. Also, Married doesn't shown only the ring... it could be something else too. I dont feel anything missing in my married cuz of the ring.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
you got the point... thank you and happy mylotting.
@minnie15 (146)
• United States
19 May 09
It think it just depends on the situation. If they have a profession where they don't advise them to wear jewlery, then I think it is ok not at work. But when they are not at work then they should wear it. I take mine off when I am cleaning or cooking because I don't want to get it dirty. I think it just depends.
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Indeed. thanks for dropping by.. :D
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
19 May 09
im married and now im in abroad i always wear may wedding ring all the time 24/7 but few day a go i remove it coz just fell to remove it in my hand for me its not about wearing ring to prove that you love your partner is in heart its in show how love your partner.
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Thanks for dropping :D
@bellis716 (4806)
• United States
1 May 09
There was a period in our marriage that my husband could not wear his wedding ring because there was a chance it could get caught in the machinery where he worked. He wears it faithfully now. In fact, we had to buy him a new one recently. He lost the original because he had lost a lot of weight. He could not find his ring anywhere. He searched diligently for it because he said he felt naked without it.
• Philippines
1 May 09
thanks for the response, and happy mylotting... hope men are like your husband... His really a faithful one.
• India
30 Apr 09
i am not yet married...but desperately waiting to get married... m engaged though...n its a beautiful feeling.... and i dont take off my engagement ring at all....its a very simple ring....not gold or ne metal...the engagement and proposal was kinda spur of the moment thing....so he slipped on my finger whatever best v found there.....but its soooooooooo dear to me....that i really dont wanna take it off....or exchange it for an expensive ring....so i wear it on my finger 24x7....b it to weddings or parties....its there on my finger!!!!
• Philippines
1 May 09
Wow that's great.. keep it up... until you have your own wedding ring.. Thanks for the response and happy mylotting...
• United States
30 Apr 09
Before we got married my husband said he didnt want to wear his ring to work, he didnt want it to get dirty and scratched and whatever but I got him a titanium ring so I told him he didnt have to really worry about it. And I said that the ring is not supposed to be worn whenever, you are married all the time not just after work. :) So he wears his everyday and I think he has taken it off maybe twice while at home to clean it. I was wearing mine everyday but it had a sizer on it, my fingers are fairly small and the ring is too big without the sizer but I lost it and I havent been able to find one again. I need to though cause I should be wearing mine as well. Im going to try to find one this weekend. I miss not having it on, I keep feeling for it and its not there. I have a neighbor and she never wears hers. He husband wears his but she does not. I am not really sure why she doesnt but I have never seen it on her.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
hoping you could replace your as soon as possible. thanks for that wonderful response, happy mylotting and may God bless you and your family.
@mimiang (3777)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
It does not fit anymore because of my pregnancies and he get fat as years go by
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
meaning you were not able to use your wedding anymore the day you deliver your baby, no worry dear mimiang, anyway the greatest symbol of love is the one you have after losing the ring... its your baby... happy mylotting and my God shower blessing to you and your family...
• Malta
30 Apr 09
Many people don't wear their wedding ring. Honestly, it's not the wedding ring that makes you married or not! And it's not the wedding ring that will stop you from cheating on your partner. I wear my wedding ring and I like it but my husband doesn't. I admit that at the beginning I was a bit angry that he doesn't wear it, but as I said it's not the ring that decides if you are married or not.
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Yes right, but you know the guys I know, they kept on hiding their rings and they really date other girls and it made me sick... I just don't understand them. :D
@jshekhar (1563)
• India
30 Apr 09
Hello Angel, I am not married yet but I know the main reason for this. Goys do not want the world to know that they are married, so that the chances of their flirting with other girls are not affected.
• Philippines
1 May 09
LOL... yeah right... thanks by the way for the response.. happy mylotting and hope you'll be not like what you've mention in the near future.. LOL
@pickoy (734)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
I got married last year and I wear them always but we both take them off during shower or when swimming so we won't lose it. I believe some people don't wear them coz it doesn't fit anymore, either they gained weight or lose weight. Some have other issues though. My father doesn't wear it coz he doesn't like the way it looks and we dont mind at all coz i myself hate its craftsmanship. But other than that im not sure why.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
I pretty sure what he had said is true. anyway thanks for the response and God Bless you and your family. Happy mylotting.
@betsyhu (207)
• China
30 Apr 09
you needn't surprise about it.When i marriaged , my hubby didn't got used to wear his wedding ring.for which,i disputed with him many times.As time goes by,i used to his habit. but one day after many years,i found he wear it actually,which amazed me. Of course,i don't ask him for what,because it's what i want.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
good he was about to think to used it. Happy mylotting and thanks for the response...
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
Yeah I do the same thing.It's because sometimes when people see you have a ring they don't feel comfortable and they look at you as a bomb.Some people think that if you are married they should treat you very nicely.With my job I have to be very friendly and let people be relaxed with me so I can ask them a lot of questions.So,a ring is a no,no.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
correction, I do love talking with married person, they were more matured with the other... will I can't blame you if that's your opinion anyway we do have different point of view with it. thank you very much for the response, happy mylotting and God bless.
@Trensue (5256)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I don't always wear my ring. It depends on what kind of work I am doing and because of his job I didn't even get one for my husband. I don't think a ring is a legitimate way to tell if someone is married or not any longer. I guess I would be concerned if I say someone slip it off and put it in a pocket.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
that's what my office mate was doing.. happy mylotting and thanks...
@Manna02 (86)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I haven't worn mine for about four out of six married years. We got married when neither of us had a dime, and we couldn't afford decent rings. Mine bent during the second year of marriage, and we never thought of replacing it. He still wears his pretty consistently. He was a mechanic through most of the marriage so far, so he would have to take it off while working. He is now working in another field of manual labor, so once again he takes it off during work. He always remembers to put it back on at the end of the day, though. We've had a few close calls of him almost losing it, but I can tell it means a lot to him.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
of course he does... anyways happy mylotting and thanks for the response.
• United States
29 Apr 09
The only time I take off my wedding ring is when I sleep. That ring should never leave the finger unless you are doing something that might distroy it. it could be because of a demading job as to why some men don't wear their rings but I think its deeper than that I think most men don't wear their rings because they like to flirt and don't want the pretty ladies to know they are married
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
absolutely correct... :) kidding... part of it is true really. that's what i think with my office mate.. :) thank you for the response and happy mylotting...
@chulasa (69)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I'm married for 5 years now. We both don't wear our wedding rings. At first we both tried. My husband ended up loosing his ring from all over the house. He would take it off when taking a shower or washing his face. Then he would totally forgot about it. As for me, I also tried, I don't loose it as he does, but I do take it off whenever I would shower or wash my face or wash the dishes etc. I put in one place then forgot to wear it again. So, we both decided that we can't wear it anymore cause we might really loose it next time. It's not that we don't want to it's just that before we got married, we both are not fond of jewelries. We didn't got the hang of it. So the wedding ring is stored somewhere in my closet for safe keeping..
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
hello chulasa, keeping it for safety is good rather than losing it. Thank you very much for dropping by.. happy mylotting.. and may God bless you and your family.
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
29 Apr 09
Hello angellyril, I always wore my wedding ring when I was married but I can not say my ex-husband wore his wedding ring all the time. As you can probably guess we had some major problems through out the marriage and he would take off his ring to upset me when he went out drinking. I could have accepted the fact if he didn't wear it at work being he is a mechanic and worked on cars and once had his hand crushed but he nearlt always wore it his ring at work.The wedding ring became an issue to show control and not a symbol of the marriage. If I were to marry again I would still always wear the wedding ring because I couldn't get married again unless I was absolutely sure I could trust my husband
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
problem is really present in every relationship, we can't help it, but anyway I wish you could find the perfect man for you. someone who could love you as you love her... I wish you all the luck and God bless. thanks for the response and happy mylotting...
• United States
29 Apr 09
I and my husband always wear our wedding rings. I have heard of people who have jobs that remove their rings for safety reasons. Also some people remove them to do the dishes. I think situations like these are understnadable why people don't wear rings. Their life is just easier without them. I don't have that problem. I might remove them to do the dishes but I always put them back on. I and my hubby trust each other so it is not a biggy to me. Now if my hubby up and decided to go out clubbing one night without his ring I might question that. But he won't so that is not a worry for me;-)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
congratulation... wishing you and your husband happy everyday... thanks for the reply.. and happy my lotting.. God bless...
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
i guess that is because they feel that it is rather irritating already, their finger size have already changed, and so on. it is more important to have the marriage and the commitment in your hearts not only through a ring.
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
good if thats really the reason...