Tensed working woman

@subi21 (72)
India
April 30, 2009 1:23am CST
I am a working woman who satys at office for 10 hrs of a day. When I get back home I am busier than at office to finish off my home duties. Even I am not getting time to spend with my child. and if he comes to me I become angry...that time I will be doing something at kitchen. May be its better to say I'm not trying to be with him. I just want to finish off my work and go to bed thinking of next days duty. Can get a change from this ? Are all of the working women's are like this ? Pease help me ...
2 responses
@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
30 Apr 09
your problem is faced by all the workin woman...as being in office for a longer time or shorter duration makes a persons mind occupied with lot of work and tensions all around them and less of time devotion mentally and physically by the person at home...if u earning enough to suffice your needs along with a little surplus than appoint a maid for your home who can complete your household chores. or else speak to your boss make him understand that you need to leaving your work a little on time...which if possible there can a way arise out of this he may or may not agree thou..but if he agress something can be worked on it..try and work on things during the weekends or holidays for your house so that on the weekdays you dont have to devote alot of time..as per the kidos needs try and make ur self understand that he needs you so u are suppose to give him time by ne means... take care..hope u get urself out of this dilemma asap..
@subi21 (72)
• India
30 Apr 09
Thank you for the suggestions. Appointing a maid is a good idea. I have one lady but she is only a part time..just for cleaning. I think a full time servant can help me ... Happy my lotting
@qiao522 (449)
• China
30 Apr 09
I am still a kid to my parents. I don't have my own job yet. But I kinda know that I am becoming you. work, housework, no time for kid... I can understand you from all the TV shows I've watched. At last they all turn out to drop one thing, family or job. It's tough, but real. No one can handle this well. So I think you may talk to your family and ask for each other's understanding.
@subi21 (72)
• India
30 Apr 09
Droping family is not good and I dont want to. And how can I drop my job. I will be missing an amount of money (my salary) all of a sudden which will create a depression stage for me. Anyway thankyou for your suggestions.