I've been away from mylot for along time but thought I would come back and post!

Canada
May 1, 2009 12:13pm CST
So much has happened since I have logged on last....I have to do some profile changing and take my wedding pic down that was hard for me....Everyone already knows from a previous post a couple of years ago almost now that I lost a baby at almost 8 months pregnant...I'm at peace with her death now...My cousin passed away in Jan...My Grandma in March! Ready for the shock? My husband walked out April 15/08....So it's been a year and I've signed the divorce papers...He to this day won't have anything to do with me won't contact me, call me, talk to me but sure has said a world of hurt behind my back and he won't even have anything to do with his kids...For those that have read about his immaturity with my step son well he's now doing it to my children...He did it to my oldest but has added my youngest in there...I'm holding as strong as I can...I didn't hardly cry when I signed the papers but the past couple of days it has hit me!
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@daneg33 (1131)
• Canada
1 May 09
I am sorry to hear that you are going through such tough times. I hate to sound philosophical, but it's true that everything happens for a reason. You will see. Once you get yourself squared around and return to some semblance of what you consider normal, things will start to fall into place for you. You are going through dark times right now, but it will get better. Believe me.
• Canada
1 May 09
Honestly things can only get better for her I think. She has had a LOT to deal with in the last few years, but she is strong and she will get through it! And your right, it will get better!
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• Canada
1 May 09
You are so right....I truly believe it's the bad things that happen to a person to only make them stronger and things will get better you are so right about that...I've made it through alot already and plan to keep moving forward!
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@cher913 (25890)
• Canada
1 May 09
what doesnt kill us can only make us stronger. hang in there, it WILL get better in time! as for your kids, they are the ones that feel it the most i think. see if you can get some counselling and maybe for them too...just to help you over the rough spots.
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• Canada
1 May 09
My son just turned 16 and I've had him in councling since it happened pretty much and things are getting better...I've been in councling myself and it's helped as for my daugther she is only 2 and half years of age but I've talked with child councelors as well as the health nurse of how to help her through...Yes I agree they get the runt of it...But it still hurts me a great deal as well and what ever I'm feeling they sense!
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• Canada
1 May 09
Hi Hun, I was wondering if and when you were ever going to come back to MyLot! It's great to see you back :) I am so very sorry that you have been going through so much and I have known about it because well we have been friends for MANY years! I wish I knew why he was doing this to you & the kids but I'm sorry I have no answer! I have tried my hardest to be here for you whenever you need me and I will continue to try my hardest to be there! Things always seem to "hit you" when you least expect it, BUT I know your a very strong person and I know you can get through this! Hugzz & Luv, PurpleTeddyBear xx
• Canada
1 May 09
LOL ya I have been away for along time I realized today that when I came to mylot and the other forums I've been on it has helped a great deal to have the support of friends on there...You have been an ausome friend to me hun and I know you have been there...I appreciate our friendship and your support so very much...He will have it hit him like a ton of bricks some day...Love Ya hugzzz
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• Canada
1 May 09
I too have found that sites like MyLot and Daily Strength have really helped me too when I have been going through problems in my life! I'm glad I have been able to be there for you, and I'm glad our talks have helped! That's what friends are for right?!?
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• Canada
1 May 09
Yes that is most definatly what friends are for and your my best friend in the world I'm so glad that we got past what my ex husband tried to come in between as well!
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@AmbiePam (50257)
• United States
5 May 09
I wish I could be there to help you in person.
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• Canada
5 May 09
Sweetie answering my posts and helping me there means alot hugzzzz